What is the best cure for a broken heart?

@hushi22 (4928)
July 19, 2010 7:33pm CST
I heard from most people that whatever is the cause shall be the cure. Some said if it was a lover then only a lover can cure it. Or some spoke of a more specific thing such as if he/she caused you the heartaches, then only he/she can cure you. I don't agree on this matter. I still believe it depends on the person if he/she wanna move on or not. Or maybe it's just too easy for me to say this because I have a different view and there was never a time I let myself fell into the grave because of heartache. I always make sure I remember that it's a significant part of one's life to learn and stand up again.
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20 responses
• India
20 Jul 10
Most people would say that with time everything would change automatically. I respectfully disagree. Once a heart has been broken for the first time it would be very difficult to let go of whatever happened that made the heart broken. I believe that a close friend can help you out a lot. I always discuss my joys and sorrows with my best mate and we always try to hangout as much as possible. So in that way i feel much better and my heart relaxes also. I had my heart broken by a girl who dumped me. She was my first love and i am still not over her. But having a best friend really helped me even though he is far apart.
• India
20 Jul 10
oops i almost forgot. You have a bf... i know that he will never break your heart!
@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
I think there is no better cure for a broken heart but time. Yes, time may be slow but it will definitely heal you. While you are on the healing process, try to move on. Acceptance is the first part. Do not blame each other, believe me both of you do not want your relationship to end but it just happened that it must be so; thank each other for the times and the lessons you've learned. Forgive yourself. Sing no sad songs for they can only bring tears. Smile - a lot!
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Jul 10
The cure is to learn how to detach. Which is much easier said than done.
@naoimi09 (106)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
I think TIME is the best cure for a broken heart. It will let everything pass. Maybe it is also easy for me to say this, because I've never been into it before. But I believe that time will help you to move on, and find yourself again. I disagree that the one who caused you the heartaches is also the one who can cure it. The damage has been done, and whatever you do, it is still you who made it.
• Portugal
20 Jul 10
yes hushi^^ i heard those two options also ahah anyway i think maybe a new love can cure it unless your heart was broken not bcs your lover cheated or lied but bcs he gave up for other reasons and still loves you. that way he can be the cure bcs both are in love and there is not a big big reason to be apart. about a new love that can be the cure if the reason to break up was something unforgetable. also lucky you to dont be down bcs of a heartache me i been very sad bcs of a guy i loved. i never understood why he acted bad with me. but best cure in most part of times is find a new person that really love us and are cute^^
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
20 Jul 10
I think first is a new love, that cures anything. But someone that we really start to love, be happy with wich will make forget all about the other, the ex. Second comes time...unfortunately only time can cure naturally. If we don't find somebody else.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
For me be with your friends who can talked too and be busy your work and got o the place that you feel good.
@kolsti87 (521)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Well many say the best cure for a broken heart is time but I personally believe the best cure for a broken heart is closure or redemption. If someone left out of nowhere, you would want closure, and if you messed up and that ended the relationship, you'd want redemption. You'd want to find the person, apologize, make it better, redeem yourself. You may forget about it, but without redemption or closure, your heart will remain broken. Sometimes you gain closure by discovering that what you stressed over was silly and you can close that chapter of your life.
@ucs2121 (33)
• India
20 Jul 10
Best cure for a broken heart like me is music. when I sad I start listening music.
@juryse (752)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
I don't agree either when they say that whoever caused it would be the cure. Not all the time I think because in most cases you have to let go. There's no direct cure and it's never easy to cure a broken heart. Time can heal all wounds. Also, when you are nursing a broken heartm, you should be with friends or people that will support you. Make yourself busy as well. Then pray for strength. The pain will go away eventually.
@zohaib4 (34)
• United Arab Emirates
20 Jul 10
Nice question. It is very difficult to cure broken heart but Yes It can be cure.It vary from person to person. If you love someone and he/she deceive you then the best way is to find better girl or boy for relationship, then you will automatically forget him/her and your heart will be cure.
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
Problem of the heart..I can still remember how it feels, because once upon a time a man broke my heart. The pain was unbearable, I think I would die. I cried in front of my friends and let the pain out. Keep myself busy with my studies and go out with friends who understand my situation. Try new things and travel to other places. Never communicate with the man at that time. Until one day I just realized that the wounds in my heart is already cured, it is cured by itself without me going into another relationship, time cured it.
• Malaysia
20 Jul 10
Recipe for a broken heart; 1 teaspoon of forgiving and infinite of positive thinking
20 Jul 10
I think it's all a matter of getting used to the idea of not having or being with the person you want to be. Humans are very adaptable, so it's not crucial to go looking for someone new to replace the old because we can get on find on our own if we want. If we go through the tough period it only gets easier until it doesn't even matter much anymore.
@zenki08 (700)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
Cure for a broken heart? A new heart maybe. Seriously speaking the best cure for a broken heart is time. As the saying goes time heals all wounds. It worked for me although it took about 5 years but it worked.
@siliguri (4241)
• India
20 Jul 10
simple and most effective cure of broken heart is to search for another one..you will find better then previous..ha ha.it seems funny but it really works and people were give it wrong name play boy or play girl actually they do it to forget the previous love..
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
20 Jul 10
Yes, I agree with you. It depends on the person willingness to let go and move on with their life, not moping all the time. If people cannot let go of things that already past, then it's too bad.
@labea17 (443)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
I believe that the best way to heal a broken heart is to just let go of all the things that have hurt you in the past, and move on to a much better, new beginning. I know that it is not going to be very easy, but that is the best thing that you can do for yourself. I have been hurt a lot of times in the past, and I have realized that nothing cures a broken heart but being with your family and friends who will love and support you no matter what. There is a cure for a broken heart, but the scar will always be there to remind you of what had happen.
• India
20 Jul 10
Personally I think just have more fun.going out with friends.Enjoy movie, Picnic, Party. Try not to think about it, otherwise your thoughts will make you sad and disappointed.Try Forget about the pain that made you break your heart and focus on your studies or working if you are on it.Try to socialize more with your friends and family,make sure you stay away from being alone,try to be with someone who do you think can makes you laugh and smile each day of your life.
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
20 Jul 10
I wish it were that simple. I'd have had much more fun with life and HIV. I could never do that. I had to be completely be over him first. Then move on. Worked for me.