Did you choose you friends or they chooses you?

The backstage crew - We are one department who never treated each other differently. We are all freinds here and do what we can to help each other
Philippines
July 31, 2010 1:37pm CST
In myy school years?Yes they did chooses me for the reason they can always count on me when it comes to assignments and projects. After that they are gone. At work? Some i did choose others just happen without choosing. The last thing we know we hang out together. We are not aware of the intentions why we chooses each other. Did you choose your friends? Or they chooses you?
7 responses
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
31 Jul 10
I think we all have experienced some of both. There are all sorts of reasons you might choose someone as a potential friend, but if you are a good person, good looking or outgoing you will have many to choose you.
• United States
1 Aug 10
I couldn't agree more with your statement.
@bkrm_gupt (219)
• India
2 Aug 10
During my college days my friend choose me as their best friend ,because when ever they need any help i am always ready to help them behind,And i am talkative as well as frank.
@GIRLBITS (228)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
I believe my friends is a gift from God... we're friends for almost 15 years now...
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
1 Aug 10
Well it happens and i never choosed.
@rtsh_gup (185)
• India
2 Aug 10
During my school time I remember they chooses me as there friends. I am very happy to be friend with them because they are always near to me when I need,they support me in each and every steep I go..........I am happy when I choose me as a friend of my friends as I feel that I have a good communication and personality .
• United States
1 Aug 10
During my school years, my friends chose me for the most part. I wasn't really a social type of person, but I believe it was my personality that helped. As I get older, I think you should start choosing your friends. They don't come to you as easily.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
31 Jul 10
I think it's some kind of fate. I don't have a lot of friends, just few, but friends i will always support when they need me. This are people who i like, people who i have great memories with, people who can understand me without talking, just by the way i'm looking now. It's the same with me. We got similarity in our characters and this is the thing i like the most. And if i see some of them, i know how my friend looks when he/she is sad, happy, mad or something like that and i don't need to ask how are the things going. The way they look will show me how they live. It's easy for me to choose who will be my friend or who won't be. I'm always complaisant, but that's not friendship and i can recognize it very well.