Love Makes life easy or Hard?

@sonalvs (159)
India
August 3, 2010 1:12am CST
There is no perfect answer about this question because wheather love makes life hard or love makes life easy because falling in love in the which situation boys and girls are nobody knows in which situation you fall in love.Because love wants dedication,time,trust if you have any three of this then love makes life hard and if you have 3 then love makes life easy.
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@ehsanji (503)
• Pakistan
3 Aug 10
Different people have different experiences as far as love is concerned. There are people who used to tell me their stories of how they fell in love and how easily everything was managed then I met those people for whom the whole situation was nothing but a mess. it is something very beautiful but there has to be sincerity in love. and there's difference between infatuation and love. These days, every body is talking about falling in love. For me Love has always been making my life easier.
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@will_win (222)
• India
3 Aug 10
It depends each and every person,if there is understanding,love cares ,trust and support will make easy if this are not there it will be hard....this i think.
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@derek_a (10874)
4 Aug 10
One thing that I have noticed about love from my past, is that even when running smoothly, it always seems to be a problem. When I first met my girlfriend, I found myself thinking about her all the time! Well, I didn't find it very comfortable or peaceful, but I just wanted to be with her.. We eventually married and the persistent thoughts got less and less and we grew more comfortable with each other. A different sort of love.. _Derek
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
4 Aug 10
Depends on the other person, and if they love you back. In the off chance that you have mutual love relationship, then it is good. But for most people, love falls apart, and makes life miserable. Just depends on your luck of the draw really.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
15 Aug 10
Hi sonalvs!. I don't think its will be make your life easier because you can not just think about your self you also need to think about your love ones. I believe love will make you stronger and happier so you will able to handle a hard winding road you will face in future.
@xandavon (102)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
Both.
• Bangladesh
3 Aug 10
extreme pleasure OR extreme regret ....there's nothing between it..
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Aug 10
Hi sonalvs! What made you raise this question, if it does not have a perfect answer . Jokes apart, you see no situation in our life could be near perfect, every phase of our life if full of plus and minus points. If you fell for someone, you need to work hard to maintain the relationship and to keep the flame of love alive and you need to be ready for any of the calamities, which may befall on you during your journey of love. If you do not fall for anyone, then you can not taste the fruit of love, on the other hand. Good discussion!
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
4 Aug 10
I think if it is meant to be love should not be hard and more importantly it should not hurt. If love is difficult it may not be meant for you. Love is supposed to enhance our life, not make it harder. Sometimes we have to fight for love but it should just come to us without too much strain. Love is what all of us need, I think and the world would be a very different if we all loved and respected one another.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
3 Aug 10
I think that love can make life easy and hard because love is like a rolla coaster it has it's ups and downs you never really know. Still I really like it when love is made to make life easy and to enjoy it you know.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
3 Aug 10
Hi sonalvs! Agree! Love wants dedication, time, trust. Love also wants fun and excitement with the one you love. To share some good meaningful time together with the one you love would only make both your love stronger. When love becomes strong life seems a lot easier as it is more bearable, more liveable, more loveable.
• Bangladesh
3 Aug 10
Love is something like a pain that gives you pleasure and a pleasure that feels like pain. So somehow it makes your life easy and somehow difficult. Its actually depends on how you explain it to your life. You can explain LOVE either ....... Loss Of Valuable Energy. Or, Lots Of Valuable Energy. Either.. Living Our Vision Everyday. Or, Lots Of Violent Emotions. It's up to you...But I would recommend you to treat LOVE as Look Observe Verify Enjoy. Or, Let Our Violence End. Love is so adorable and soft so be careful to handle it...if you are careless it can break....
• India
3 Aug 10
In country like India getting married the loving person is difficult. Have to struggle to get permission form both of the families. Trusting the person is first of all difficult. Cheaters everywhere to cheat innocent girls. So it depends on their personal feelings, country and all.
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
It depends on the relationship you have with the one that you love. If you don't get along with the people that you are loving it really makes life hard but when you get along with them it will make your life easy because you are happy with them, you are having an inspiration to be motivated in the things that you are doing to improve your life.
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
i think love, like life is a combination of struggles and happiness.Being in love also entails everyday decision and sacrifice.not all honey and roses when in love. as long as love is the right love all the hardships in life will not fall categorically to making one's life hard.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
3 Aug 10
I believe that love can make life easier. Your burdens are less when you have someone to share them with. Love can only make life hard when we make the wrong decisions.
• India
3 Aug 10
Hi, On the contrary, true love always makes life easier. It is not the love that makes life a mess. Things like uncontrolled expectations, ego, greed are the devastating ones. To be perfectly honest a person who can handle himself perfectly will be successful in every relationship. Confusion of any kind can make life harder. Whatever he does, he must do it with conviction. Wise people knows how to make the most of any situation, even the adverse ones. What I suggest is that we shouldn't fall in love prematurely, which means, unless we are sure that we are ready for it, we shouldn't get involved. Thanks. God bless you
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
Definitely it's a combination of hard and easy. It's like a ferris wheel, sometimes you go up and sometimes your down. Love is not perfect just like people, but I think when people is in love there are always happy. Sharing love is the most effective way to stop the war and to stop fighting. So I hope there's a big space to love one another than to hate each other.
@swn_chik (266)
• India
3 Aug 10
Yeah,if you have all the three(dedication,time,trust)with you then love makes your life easy but everyone is not so lucky to have all these three together.So whether love makes life easy or hard depends on individual's karma.
3 Aug 10
I don't see how it can make life easier but it can certainly make it harder lol all those restless nights thinking about a special somebody when they're not even aware that you love them... That's not a pleasant thing ;) But when you are with someone it's the best feeling in the world, but it doesn't necessarily make life any easier, it's more likely to be a source of stress than anything else in my opnion.
• India
3 Aug 10
It depend upon to individual as how much we love and how honest and have trust to each other .If both them were satisfy to each other than love make life easy.If they have far relationship than love make life hard because they do not know each other how much they love each other and they may have doubt upon each other and they have problem.