Can you be a good wife and not cook?

for me, i think i can be a good wife...that's not only the base to be a good wife.. it's also to show your care,loving,loyal for you husband..and it will be a good the taste of your husband..

Hi Tika Talk, My husband knows how to cook few meals, more on frying and grilling but I do not always allow him to do so. I prefer to do the cooking myself. I feel better that way but I also believe that it's not supposed to be a guaranteed part of the package. A wife may choose not to do so if she wishes and no husband should obligate a wife to do otherwise. For my part, I am most happy to hear my husband and kids appreciate my cooking each day. It somehow boosts my self esteem. Have a nice day!

as long as you work as a team and equally share the workload, it doesn't matter who does which tasks. marriage is a team. and your gender doesn't dictate which of you should do what.

I have to agree with you. I have to admit that I'm not much of a cook. My husband is more of the cook. We do try to cook together though. Although I don't really cook a lot, I do think that I am a good wife. My husband has certainly told me that I am.

I wish my husband would cook more. But at this point if I don't cook we wouldn't eat. I have been cooking more since having our daughter. I really don't think it matter who cooks as long as it gets done. We all need to work as a team.

I have to agree! One of my best friends does all the cooking when he's home. His wife can cook, but she defers to him when he's home from work. I think that cooking doesn't matter in many happy marriages. Few people these days fall in love because of cooking skills! :-)