Why we are JEALOUS from others happiness ?

India
August 5, 2010 7:36pm CST
Hi my lotters....its feel very bad that people are happy and you have sadness in your life but I have seen many who are jealous from me and try to make my life worse..how to deal with them if they are you close ones ???
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@hushi22 (4940)
6 Aug 10
i find it normal because that is part of human nature. what is important is how we deal with it so that it won't cause problem to anyone. happy mylotting =)
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• India
6 Aug 10
Ok its true but how can be you jealous from someone who helped you a lot when no body helped you ?? c'mon this is not a human nature ???
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@hushi22 (4940)
6 Aug 10
im sorry to say but my point is i think jealousy alone is human nature. regardless to whom or what has triggered the jealousy.
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• India
6 Aug 10
k :)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
Jealousy is part of life. They get jealous because the happiness you have right now, is the kind of happiness they want to have. They pull you down, because they can't believe you can do it while they are not. They want your life to be the same of their life. How to deal with them? IGNORE! And prove to them, they can not pull you down. If you can avoid them it's better. You can not close to them if they are pulling your life down.
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• India
6 Aug 10
Yes just IGNORE them and it works fine for me :) I do so :)
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• United States
6 Aug 10
Life has made so many people so stressed out these days that for some reason people find it necessary to always compete especially against the wrong people. Sometimes people have so many bad things going on in their live they opt to hurt those who are happy. It is my personal opinion that if someone is "jealous" towards me I just try really hard not to associate myself with people like this.
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• India
6 Aug 10
Oh thanks for the suggestion yes I also make distance from such people ..
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@cream97 (29166)
• United States
7 Aug 10
Hi, thepankajnegi. It is because others are doing so much more better than they are. They wished that it was them. We all can have success, we just have to work hard at achieving it. There is no reason for someone to be jealous of another persons happiness. They can have the same happiness, if they go out and apply themselves. Being jealous is never a good thing to be.
• India
8 Aug 10
hmm none is blessed with all things so we have to understand that hardwork can achieve more for us ...but some people do not understand..:)
@Hatley (164507)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Aug 10
hi thepankajnegi I would tell the people are jealous of you that you worked hard to make your life successful and instead of bing jealous of your and trying to pull you down, that they use that engergy they just wasted as acting jealous, and turn it instead to their own positive actions and see how successful they themselves can be instead.
• India
6 Aug 10
Haha yeah making them more jealous is my main aim :)...thank you
• India
8 Aug 10
Well if they are your close ones then i would suggest you to get rid of those people as soon as possible because..if they are jealous of your happiness that shows that they are just pretending to be close to you to use or exploit you ....