how to maintain your relationship

@ongtina (1232)
Singapore
August 5, 2010 10:43pm CST
What do you specially do for your spouse to keep the relation good? How often do you do it? How do you treat your spouse on the usual days? Do you think it's good enough?
6 responses
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
6 Aug 10
Hi on! I think 'caring and sharing' are two essentials of maintaining a relationship, if one can care for his/her partner, s/he can have a good bonding with his/her partner.
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
its very important for couples to be really sweet and showed love most of the time, even in the most simpliest and smallest way. Just try cooking for your husband or just leaving a small not will do.
• India
6 Aug 10
A relationship truly depends upon confidence. Be true to your spouse and make him/her comfortable by your doings is the best way to maintain the relationship.
@dian21 (606)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
My husband only goes home every after two weeks and stays here only for two days. That is why I try to avoid having arguments with him and make it harmonious for our family. We go out with our baby. Sometimes even if I am not good in cooking, I try to cook his favorite menu. At least he can see my effort. And the most important is that we try to have good or quality conversation about anything under the sun. That is what I am always looking forward. Even if we can't go out to mall as long as we have good talk while eating something, then that is already very special for both of us.
@jemmerp (59)
• United States
6 Aug 10
Most of the times, i would compromise to whatever is not being agreed upon.Understanding those who cannot understand seems to be the key to any relationship if you want it to be harmonious continually. You must know when to end unending arguments for the sake of continuity otherwise, things will fall apart.
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
i care for him in a simple way by getting him awake early in the morning and make coffee for him..sometimes i think its not good enough to treat my spouse in usual days its better in every minute if i can..