job or wife

Indonesia
August 6, 2010 9:18pm CST
My wife is pregnant now for our first baby, and a lot of her desire, while I'm busy with my job. may be myloters here more experienced than me with this things. what should I do when I have a costumer while my wife immediately asked for something !!
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6 responses
@eileenleyva (10964)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
Say excuse me to the customer and attend to the wife. Wife comes first.
• Indonesia
7 Aug 10
yes you right, I always try to make my is first priority, but if the costumer is very influential for my job, that is my dilemma
@eileenleyva (10964)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
The influential customer would see you kindness to your wife . He will commend you.
@bettydeng5 (1709)
• China
7 Aug 10
The understanding between couples is very important. when I pregnant, my husband and law in mother are very busy for their work, and I should take care of myself. However I understand them to work hard to want to earn more. As your situation, if you have free time you can accompany your wife to take a walk, and chat with her more and concern her, if you have time, you can accompany her to read the baby book, it will be helpful.
• Indonesia
7 Aug 10
thanks for your advice, I will try to do what you say
@ermadear (367)
• Indonesia
7 Aug 10
yes, this case ever happen with me.i'm a mother from one kid and as wife.when i'm pregnant, me and my husband each very busy with our own work.almost everyday i go home soo night and sometimes when i go home rain out there. this is because i must waiting my husband.but when my baby born, my husband still busy with his work.maybe we must more give toleration with that.we still must work, for prepare our kid future. we need money for they education,buy some milk, etc
• Indonesia
7 Aug 10
thanks for response, this is a dilemma, one side I must take care of my wife in other side I must collect more money for our baby in future, thanks for share your experience to us
@kim2089 (34)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
Of course wife first..because she is a pregnant and to care her soon first baby,two life's that contingent..you could leave the job if your wife ask something.. until the baby is born..if the baby and your wife is important to you, do it just for them.. family is important to us..job is always there around us..
@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Aug 10
hi inova wow that is a dilemna as you don't want to irritate your customer but this is your wife's first baby so she is apt to be a bit nervy so just ask the customer if he or she can wait just a moment as this'is my wife's first baby and she is nervy.I bet the customer will say I understand do help your wife, I can wait. try it and see. most are amenable to a woman with her first ever pregnancy.
@jamed28 (1909)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
Buy a duck tape and put it in your wife's mouth, or even tie her on your basement. How could you support her if you will not work? Make her realized that you are doing your work because you love her, and why is that so, because you are working to earn, and buy her stuff that she ask you. Or better yet not tell her. She has her own mind and in only needs a few intelligence to understand this things even without telling her. Or the best thing to do is to return her to her mother.