Does outer look enough for love?

@cutygirl (576)
India
August 7, 2010 3:22pm CST
I am having good figure, many guys asking me for friendship and marriage. Is outer look only enough for love and marriage?
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12 responses
• India
9 Aug 10
no never enough for outlook for love/marriage love is a beautiful feeling of 2 hearts its want only care frm our loved one.marriage is the feeling,sharing,and more its marriage life hw the outlook is enough for this 2. he looking only ur outlook na its love & he is not marriage 2 u its one of affection on u.
@cutygirl (576)
• India
9 Aug 10
thnx fr ur response i m glad that you are here with me
• India
3 Oct 10
no its not enough but ya its very important. but i would prefer my wife to be loyal and understanding and be average. than to have a unloyale and useless but really beautiful wife. ya but one more point i personally like slim girls so i would prefer that my wife would be slim. and there is nothing wrong in that right? but i would still want a wife that is loyal understanding and caring. as an advice people who ask for friendship and marriage just for ur figure are not going to love u once ur figure is gone. so find a partner who is loving even when u dont have that figure...like me hahaha
@salsen (108)
• Turkey
5 Sep 10
Not enough at all, beauty and passion fade away what remains in a perfect relationship is pure love, common senses, respect to each other and most importantly trust&loyalty...
• India
9 Aug 10
ya many of them go 4 tht only thy outer beauty is most important
• India
9 Aug 10
If any one want to be a honest partner search for partner who have good character not look, nor showoff who respect every one humble for every one
@chinoxads (255)
• United States
25 Aug 10
I don't is the most important thing, but is a reality that the first thing that a men look in the women is how she look at the outside and when we start knowing that person, if this person result to be a good person with a good personality, and friendly, then if we feel comfortable with this woman then we try get interested in her and get closer to know more and is up the woman if he is the right person for a relationship or friendship.
@haroont2 (101)
• United Arab Emirates
8 Aug 10
Ya dear these thing do matter. but al depend on the eye of beholder. but ,, you have to work hard to keep it going no just figure help u to go on. its internal feeling that come in you once you talk to eachother.once you know eachother. the figure left way back..
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
8 Aug 10
No Cutygirl, it isn't. Good looks and a good body are helpful for attracting others but they are not enough for a lasting love or marriage. You have to have a personality that is compatible with the person you are with and your relationship has to be based on something with more substance than looks alone. Time will age you and there are many things that could change your looks and body. Having kids, accident,health issues, etc etc.are all things that can change looks.
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
7 Aug 10
Hi cutygirl, I think you know the answer already, but I will say it anyway. No, what someone see when they look at a person's body, their shape, hair, or color is not enough to to warrant a friendship and definitely not a marriage. Think about it, what do these guys know about your heart or your personality? They don't know what your favorite, food, color, or song is or anything else about you. They are just lusting after what they see, a beautiful young lady with a nice figure. You must know that it is wiser to choose a guy who wants to be with you for more than just your body. He should think of you as intelligent, beautiful, smart, and sexy. If you choose someone who doesn't think those other things about you,just sexy, the relationship is a lost cause.
@Suke002 (311)
• United States
7 Aug 10
That is a definite no. Love should not be based on looks (even though they help a lot) but looks fade within years and if their love was based on that, then you won't have their love for long and the marriage won't last either. There will always be someone younger and prettier so don't hold your breath on a relationship based on looks.
@fanzejian (372)
• China
9 Aug 10
it's true that good figure could appeal to a lot of people.people who are having a good figure are around people who are rich or hansome at all times . So now ,you are not surprised and annoyed. I thingk you don't need to worry about that . Maybe you could learn others who also is haveing a good figure how to deal with these things that you had met I think all men and all boy both like and look at or glance ,even peer at beautiful women ,even who had good figure.but women who don't have good figure will envy you ,even curse you . So you just need good yourself attitude adjustment. god bless you ,wish you beautiful forever
• India
9 Aug 10
No outer look is not enough. Mutual consent and mutual understanding is mush as welll dignity of a person in the public as well as earning and looking after capacity of a person is must.