I am so English, are you?

India
August 10, 2010 1:49pm CST
Today, I had a very bizarre experience. After somehow squeezing my car in the overtly packed parking lot in the busy afternoon hours of business I was headed for a meeting in suburban Mumbai. My youngest brother and me got into a lift and were headed for the sixth floor in a very expensive yet an old strategic building. The lift had 6 people initially and two of them got out at the third floor, me, my brother, the liftman, a middle-aged lady and two other men (3rd floor ones). Lo, Behold! The fun begun at the fourth after the two men left. Suddenly the lift got struck and it got pitch dark. The lights went OFF and the lift started moving erratically sometime up- sometime down. I asked the liftman again and again as politely as I could whether he could do something about it or if he knew the main security gate’s number so that somebody could come and assist, well he was pale and blank as a blank sheet. After a good 10 minutes or so somebody came and pushed open the door forcibly. To my utter surprise the lift-man was the first one to pounce upon the open door which was a good five feet above. After he was out I asked my brother to jump out to safety with the stool of the lift man decked below and the middle-aged woman was already sweating. The next one was she and then finally I let myself out. During this entire ordeal I was calm and never panicked. But once we got out to safety and I had my car out of the jammed parking lot, I realized I was acting hyper. This is said to be a very English trait, lol. I read somewhere when there is a difficult situation an English would be very cold as compared to a French and once the situation is over they ( the English) tend to get a nervous breakdown. How about you? How do you react to a life-threatening situation ( ie. If you have ever been in one) J? Have you been ever struck in a lift? Please recount any bizarre experience if you have ever had. Bodhi
3 responses
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
dear bodhi, i can be as calm as an american. i have had an experience before while i was performing my practicum in a hotel. there was brownout and i was at the 6th floor. but door didnt open so i just waited alone inside the lift for the electricity to return or at least the generator to work. just thinking now, what if the lift sways or moves without the electricity? i guess i will panic ann
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• India
24 Aug 10
Dear Ann, Thats so scary to be left and stranded all alone. So, how long were you in finally? hmmm.... calm as an American.. thats an interesting statement, dear friend Thanks for sharing!
• India
24 Aug 10
When I got struck I was sweating too, it was unbearably suffocating!
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
hello bodhi, did you ever observe americans? they work up very fast, walks fast, everything is fast with them .. yet they are cool.. thats where i got that phrase "calm as americans" i guess i stayed in the lift for nearly 10-15 minutes. i was perspiring when i got out. ann
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
hello dear bhai, So funny,how could this liftman do not know what to do in this case of emergency,aren't they trained in such situation. Or,aren't they had some briefings with what to do when incidents occurred (uh uh) Ok,good for you dear brother that you stay as calm as you can and was still able to compose yourself until help came. I never had any experience like being stuck in an elevator,but i don't like taking a lift with no company (never alone,never at all) I always been thinking when things goes wrong like that,as i am everyday taking the lift with my colleagues (at least with colleagues) If ever same thing happen,i guess i won't be that panicky with my colleagues. But,if it takes too long for help to come,maybe that would be another story. Have a good day always dear
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• India
12 Aug 10
Hi Didi, Well this liuftman was very stupid, i am sorry to be so blunt but really he was. When I asked him whether he has any office's number in the building he response was so blank and stupid that it could have flared the temper of a saint. maybe he was new and didn't have any experience in dealing with these kind of a problem or maybe he is just so ignorant. The thing is past now and am happy that nothing was seroously worng. Yup one thing I must mention, that if the lift is struck it gets extremely suffocating after a while as there is very less ventilation and if the number of people are more it would be even worse. Good that you always have someone along with you. Stay safe and you have a wonderful day too dear Didi!
@derek_a (10874)
11 Aug 10
Yes, this is something that I experience very often. A few months ago I slipped from the top of the ladder into our attic falling backwards onto my back. Time seemed to slow down as I watched myself falling backwards into the air. I landed on my back with a thump. For about 10 minutes I laid on the ground feeling nothing really, but just thinking I wouldn't be able to move. Then I found I could move and got up. A few minutes later I found myself pacing up and down feeling very restless, but thankful I hadn't broken my back or worse, my neck. I went back up the ladder just to prove that I could do it, but I was shaking a lot. I always go back and do something after an accident, because if I don't I think I will always have a problem with it then. _Derek
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• India
11 Aug 10
Hi Derek, Thats a very wonderful response and I am truly sorry to learn that you had to go through the pain of falling down from the ladder. Yup Thanks heaven that you were not seriously injured. Thats is something which I do too, I once had a terrible accident while riding a bike, but as soon as my stitches came off I was on my bike again, if I hadn't been then it could have developed into a fear Lol. Thanks a lot again for your wonderful response, Cheers, Bodhi