Will you ever marry?

@Lore2009 (7378)
United States
August 16, 2010 4:21pm CST
I've been married once and now that I'm not, I think about the choices I have. The pros and cons about marriage, there are a lot. But what are your views? To the singles out there, do you want to marry eventually? Why or why not?
8 responses
babz02
@babz02 (250)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
Of course i will be wed, to someone who will be my everything. Can't wait to be there, married that is.
balthazorr
@balthazorr (40)
• Indonesia
16 Aug 10
of course i will marry , cannot wait to marry her , all my hope lay on her
balthazorr
@balthazorr (40)
• Indonesia
16 Aug 10
its lie not lay ...... typo
Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
16 Aug 10
Hi there, thanks for the reply. Curious, why can't you wait to be married? What are some of the ideals you have about marriage?
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
I am single. yes i do think of getting married. when the right time comes and when my BF finalizes his plans with mine i guess we will get married soon. I know it is going to be tough. i know there would be problems along the way but i think if God is between our relationship, our parents has blessed our marriage... then we will be able to get through this together....
Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
17 Aug 10
Thanks for the reply. Best wishes and luck to your future marriage.
Tresaqwe
@Tresaqwe (376)
• United States
17 Aug 10
One day in the future I believe that I am going to get married, but I'm young and don't really know much. In my future I see myself with someone and a family, while living in a nice home, with him working a job and me watching the kids and cleaning the house. It's cliche, but I just want to see that sometime in the future. That's the way it is in my family. :]
Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
17 Aug 10
Hi, thanks for the comment. I hope it works out for you!
Absinto
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
16 Aug 10
I think when the time is right i would like to marry the person i love. Its a diferent way of saying that you love them and do want to (at least try) stay with them for the rest of your life.
Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
16 Aug 10
Hi there, thanks for the reply. That's true that marriage is a big promise and to make that courageous attempt to try to promise can be saying that you love someone. But I think it's not the only way.
Simeon
@bludshot00 (101)
• United States
17 Aug 10
Im only 20 years old so i think im still fairly young, but i dont think i will ever get married. To me if your in a relationship and you love someone deeply you dont have to get married to say you love that person or to share things or to have a baby. Marriage to me seems like its just a old school reason to say i love you that everyone does now days. everyone i know who got married (3 people i know not a lot) all got DIVORCED! they lasted no more than 4 years and ended up hating eachother seems like it was all a waste of time but might just be the big city i dont know
Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
17 Aug 10
Hi, thanks for the reply. That is a lot of divorces! I think I was in a fantasy world, when I got married! But in reality, I think it is only a contract and like you said, it doesn't mean you have to get married to show your love.
davenhearst
@davenhearst (327)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
Yes, I want to marry i know married life is not simple as we think but if you love each other and try to make your relationship lasts...Husband and wife should communicate about what's going on their relationship
Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
17 Aug 10
That is true. Communication is very important and it takes two to speak up. Thanks for the comment!
sophie2charm
@sophie2charm (35)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
marriage is still the best way to show that you will be there for each other for better or for worse..aside from the fact that your will a security blanket for the both of you...I say yes for marriage....
Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
16 Aug 10
Hi there, thanks for the reply. I sort of agree with you about how marriage is the best way to show each other for better or for worse, in the sense that that is a big commitment to make.
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
16 Aug 10
i dont know if i will marry or not :( i always have bad luck with guys :( anyway i want to marry one day with a guy that really cares for me more than everything^^ other things doesnt matter at all just my love for him^^ but i want marry just if is with a guy that really loves me bcs if is to marry and then he leaves or just cheat on me better to not.
Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
16 Aug 10
Thanks for the reply. I don't know if I will marry either... my ideal is big so it will be hard to find that perfect someone!