What have you learned from your past RELATIONSHIP?

India
September 9, 2010 8:57am CST
can you share your experience about your past/present relationship.?you might be thinking that talking about past relationships is crazy(but what can I do I am also "crazy" ).Many people don't like to discuss their past relationship. As per my opinion I want give answer in only one sentence I learned "DON'T LOVE ANYONE MORE THAN THEY DESERVE" . please reply
11 responses
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Sep 10
That if something makes me uncomfortable, I need to speak up right away...
@vandana7 (65093)
• India
10 Sep 10
This is true for every relationship, isn't it? :) Problem is, even if we speak up, nobody listens. :(
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@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Sep 10
They listen, they just don't believe...
• India
9 Sep 10
Oh I think this question is taken from Orkut. lol Anyways , what I have learned from my past relationship is that [b]"Never Hurt a heart that loves Never Love a heart that Hurts"[/b] take care :)
• India
12 Sep 10
YOU ARE 100% Right...Not only a Question But My Answer is also from Orkut (but Answer is 100% real,and depicts my feelings)
@babyanna (1217)
• China
12 Sep 10
LOL!Hi,Crazy_Poster! I'm pretty crazy,too.I do agree with the sentence you mentioned. My last relationship was quite crazy.It was with a foreign guy.He's got his Indian accent and sometimes I got really confused about what he was talking.hehe. It didn't last long,though.He's not really worth my love.So I broke up with him.I made some mistakes when I was with him and I think I will never forgive myself for doing that.Anyway,bygones are bygones. Have a nice day!
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
12 Sep 10
There are two main things that I can think of that I have learned from my past relationships. The most important thing that I learned is that I don't have to put up with abuse. If I see that there is something that isn't right in a relationship I am a strong enough person that I can get out of it. The other lesson that I learned from the relationships prior to my husband is that I don't have to immediately hand out my trust to a person that I am in a relationship with.
@tomitomi (5441)
• Singapore
10 Sep 10
We both met on the plains of physical attraction. Physical attraction, however, does not sustain. Beauty lies beyond.
@creed30 (127)
9 Sep 10
if your in the stage of inlove you never reliaze that you love the person even she /he don't deserve in the eyes of many. love your self.
@akn1961 (1035)
• India
9 Sep 10
i want that earlier mistakes should not be repeated ,that is my way of learning and improving things,thanks
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
I have learned that the the one you love the most is the one who will hurt you the most. being cheated is the worst nightmare but falling in love again is the best solution. :)
@vandana7 (65093)
• India
9 Sep 10
I outgrow relationships - and I need more mature people around me to put up with my tantrums or reason things out with me. That I have problems with egoistic and illogical people. That I cant act docile and shy which I am not. That I have a sense of humor that is different from others and that I can be a bi*ch when things dont go my way. And that - I am a better person so I deserve better. Right person needs to have a lots of sharp sense of humor - constantly! Because I eat words and that can cause misunderstandings. :(
• United States
9 Sep 10
I have learned a great many things but it did not come overnight. The best of all lessons that I will use forever is, One strike and your are out! ahahaha... Thought I'd be funny.
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
You might be right. We should love that someone just the right amount or else we could get hurt in the process. But it goes the other way around, right?