she wants to hang on but she confessed she will cheat if we end up marrying
By isaacateko
@isaacateko (32)
Nigeria
September 11, 2010 11:15am CST
what do you think? there is this friend of mine that i am very attracted to. she is attracted to me too and never wants to see me with another girl but she said she will cheat on me if she marries me.I did not sleep with her in case you are thinking that....how can i do away with her because she is coming at me real bad?
2 responses
@Angelwriter (1954)
• United States
11 Sep 10
You shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who so blatantly disrespects you. If she's saying upfront that she'll cheat on you, she's not someone to be with. Not to mention that she apparently wants something from you -fidelity- that she's not willing to give in return. As for how to "do away with her" how about telling her you have too much respect for yourself to be involved romantically with someone who so obviously doesn't care for you. Tell her you'll still be friends (if you still feel that way and if she's okay with it) but as far as your romantic life, you have o ties to her and are free to see whomever you choose.
@isaacateko (32)
• Nigeria
13 Sep 10
Angel, thanks, but i have tried.i even contemplated going out with someone esls not because i loved the person but just to put her off but decided against because that should not be a ground to start up a relationship and the other party may be hurt.all my moves don't seem to be working out on her
@Wordjunkie (435)
• Canada
11 Sep 10
If she is telling you right out she will cheat on you she probably will. Besides, its not a good way to start a relationship, if she doesn't think she can be loyal there is probably a good reason for it. Maybe she's hung up on someone else. Just tell her you are not interested unless she can commit to you and stick to it. Otherwise, you will have to cut her out of your life and stay away from her. Hope it works out for you. :)
@isaacateko (32)
• Nigeria
13 Sep 10
thank wordjunkie, she cant seem to let go of me and i am kind of really attracted to her. cutting her out of my life is something i find very difficult to do. i honestly have tried but each time we get to see, i will not be able to execute my plans.
