your relationships with sister/s... good or bad?

@chiyosan (30204)
Philippines
September 12, 2010 12:24am CST
I am the only girl in the family. i have 2 brothers and i grew up to be the only girl here, i have no sisters... and my cousins are not that close to me either... i sometimes feel that things would be better if i have a sister - i would probably be really close with her and i will have the best of times together with my "sister". i see my nieces and they seem to really love each other as sisters and i always know that that kind of feeling i will never have... =( oh anyway.. sometimes there are just things that you feel only a sister would understand you.. and i kind of am missing out that part in my life. hehe what about you? how is your relationship with your sister? for those who don't have one.. do you feel sometimes that it would be nice/great to have a sister?
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@goldie77 (168)
13 Sep 10
I have 2 sisters and none of us are close which makes me very sad -it's =just the way it is in my family -we weren't brought up to be close or taught to be nice to each other or care for each other -I have on eof the coldest, most uncaring families imaginable
@flauee (92)
17 Sep 10
it would have been nice if you and your sisters are close... there is a saying that goes: we can choose our friends but never a family members.. but i hope there will be time that you can be close... take care...
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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7 Oct 10
I don't have any sister, either. I have 2 younger brothers and I remember when my mother was pregnant with my youngest bro, I first hoped to have a sister. But then I enjoy being the only girl so much. I love my brothers and I am very protective of them, and I think that I would be twice or three times more protective if I had a sister. I think we will be hanging out a lot, and would enjoy harassing my brother into letting him do things for us, like watching chick flicks and romantic movies.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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@ellechoi (282)
• Hong Kong
5 Oct 10
I don't have a sister, but i have cousin sister , older sister. My relationships with her. It's not good. Actually ,i really hate her. She always acting like a good girl so every1 always love her, than me , even my mother. My mother always compare me with her, my mother always talk good things about my sister, bla bla...I don't want to hear anything about her anymore.But i think i can't, my mother open a restaurant , my sister come to help , she also take 60 customer to go to eat in my mother restaurant , now , all member in my family really like her. Maybe i'm just envy , but i know i don't. My birthday is coming , but with this , i don't think any1 can remember me, except my dad. The bussiness always busy , member in family always talk about my sister, they totally forgot my existence. I think i'm just a shadow in my family. It's fine if every1 forgot my birthday. I didn't care about that anymore. Sorry for taling nonsense
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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@flauee (92)
16 Sep 10
my sister and i haven't been living together since childhood.. i grew up with my grandparents (father side) and she grew up with my aunt (my fathers sister). we see each other occasionally. thats how it is since before till now. but the distance between us did not stop us being good sisters.] yes, we have differences in a lot ways but we sure love each other in our very own little way. we love to be together but we both know if we stay together too long (more than a week) we start getting into each others nerves. hahahaha...
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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• Philippines
13 Sep 10
I have three sisters and my relationship with them is good. But sometimes there's misunderstandings between the four of us. We see to it that it will be resolved easily with the help of our mom.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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@ellyse2003 (1465)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
my sister and are fine. We go out together and do a lot of things together. I am in college now and she's in high school.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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@romania2 (237)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Being the only girl in the family has its perks... at least that's what I think, but I haven't experienced that! I've always wanted an older brother, someone who could take care of me and beat up guys who annoy me. Haha! I have two sisters and we have a really awesome relationship. We do your typical "sister" things like shopping and sharing clothes and make-up and shoes and bags. We talk about boys, help each other with homework, and we laugh at each other! It's really weird that we get along well since the three of us are very different. We fight a whole lot! But it gets resolved pretty quickly. It's just sibling rivalry and all that. I'm really glad they're in my life.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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• China
13 Sep 10
Hello,chiyosan,I also have no sisters but I am not the noly child in my family,I have a elder brother.We have a good realation each other.when we are all students and live at home.Every morning the one who got up earlier would call the other one ,then the one brushed teeth when the other one was washing face. But we never went to school together,my friends with me went to school and his friends with him.We liked talk with each other something which maybe the social situation or personal thinking. I puzzeled that he who was good at studying wound help me anything but study.Now,I think he is right.He let me learn to study on my own.Now,he has got married and have a baby,but we also live together with our parents.We also love each other.Whenever I need help or I argue with my parents he is always to help me and support me . I am agree that life is just like that you can not have everything but just like look around,God will surely give you something to replace what you dont have.I think you have to like your own around and need not to think something which you have nothing .
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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• Philippines
13 Sep 10
my relationship with my brother is good for me since we are in adolescence pubirty. we're not having a war or hurting each other because that's not the way by solving the problem. anyway, when we are in elementary we're always fighting, but now we've realize that it's not good for our relationship.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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@jillhill (37383)
• United States
12 Sep 10
I have two sisters...and we are very very close.....and get along famously. The oldest and I are not in contact as much as my younger sister and me..but that's because we work opposite hours and find it difficult to find time to chat on the phone. We all live in different cities but get together often...They are my truest friends.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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@shearry18 (118)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Sep 10
I'm afraid I have the same situation as yours. I am also the only girl in the family. I also have two brothers. My elder brother is a registered nurse now and my younger brother is still studying for college. I also taught how things would work if I have a sister. Maybe it's cool to have one where in you can do girl stuff's together and share secrets about boys.LOL! But Even tough i don't have a sister, I am still contented with my two brothers because they are fun to be with and they treat me as their princess. I hope you get to enjoy your brothers too and have a happy life. =)
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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@sender621 (14956)
• United States
12 Sep 10
I am the oldest of four children. My only sister is the youngest sibling. I have been very fortunate to have always had a good relationship with her. i consider my sister to be my best friend.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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• Vietnam
12 Sep 10
My relationship with my younger sister pretty good, I always try my best to make her happy, smile and I always protect her. I think have a little sister is pretty good, so much fun. I always buy a little toy for her and give her money to buy food and drink. I love she too much.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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• India
12 Sep 10
i love my sister very much though we fight many times but we soon regret it and accept our mistakesand i like this part the most as i belive that if as i believe taht if there is no fight in any kindof relationship then that relationship is incomplete and i love my sister and she loves me very much.......
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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@thanks1961 (7046)
• India
12 Sep 10
Hi dear, For grace, I am in a very good relation wit both my sisters. I got 2 younger sisters and got married and staying with their own family. But we have a long and friendly relationship. In fact, I just had my 2nd lunch from her home and return back at home. One sister is staying about 10 mts. walking distance and she had some problems with her computer and I was called for to see it. A finished my lunch and gone there, and she was preparing some special dishes and after completing her computer problem she compelled me to share the lunch with her and I come back. I love both my sisters very much and we keep a healthy and friendly time since we were small children. And I have 2 brothers also. They also are in good relationship with them. It is a great bless that we have nice and loving sisters that we have. Regards, Thank-s
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
Hi! We are three in the family. The eldest was my sister, followed by my brother, then me the youngest. Im so glad and thankful to God, that even though I lost my parents at a young age, He gave me siblings that are so good to me. I can't remember myself fighting with them and vice versa, specially my sister who became my friend and mentor as well. Ever since, she acted so nice to me and we really jive with each other's personality, Whenever I needed help, she's always there to help and support me. Now that im having my own family, she volunteered to take care of my daughter whom i really thankful for, because without her, I really can't entrust my daughter's welfare to anyone else other than her. I love her and I know that she loves me too. I only pray the best for her and her family, also my brother. I do hope that you have a sister too. Sometimes, life's just like that, you can't have everything but just look around, God will surely give you something to replace what you don't have. God bless!
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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• Philippines
12 Sep 10
i have 1 sister and our relation is so pretty good i love my sister more than my life without my sister my life is nothing.i care my sister so much, much more i very care for him because she suffering a sickness she have leukemia i need to care him so much because i believe that the best way i do for him.... i love him so much
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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@shia88 (4582)
• Malaysia
12 Sep 10
HI, I am so glad that my relationship with the sister is very good. I only have one eldest sister in my family . When we was young, our relationship is good too,but not that close as now. NOw, we have our own family and I still live far apart from my parents and my siblings,however, it does not affect our relationship at all. We are having a close relationship with each other and we always do keep in touch with each other. It is great to have a sister,at least we can share our problem, and My eldest sister definitely love me alot. Everytime when I go back to my hometown, she will cook something nice food me to eat and even bring me out for dining. She will buy me a present when she was out for holiday trip. I know that she always has me as her little sister in her heart. It same goes to me. Whenever I was on holiday, I will buy her a present for her and her family.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
oh.. i wish to have the same.. i only have brothers who don't talk much... and a mother whom loves me so much but it is different for sisters right? =(
@nicajoice (188)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
My relationship with my younger sister is pretty good. Although we haven't lived together for more than five years now, we keep our bonding intact through keeping in touch with each other, either through phone or the internet. We have a seven-year age gap, so she really looks up to me and tries to copy everything I do. It is thus, a big responsibility for me to be a good example to her. Since she's pretty much younger than me, we don't talk about too serious stuff. I only share with her things that her young mind can comprehend. I really see myself in her; my rants when I was her age, my struggles during my student years, and my childish infatuations way back. hehe. It's nice to have a sister, younger or older. In both circumstances, you'll be able to learn a lot.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
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• Philippines
8 Oct 10
Me and my sister loves each others so much. We shares secrets and we help each others in everything. Like if i have money, i give her because she is still a student. I also help her in her assignments. she also helps me in taking care of my kid. We never quarrel but instead we miss each others especially if i go on for vacation. Right now, she lives with me.