is it true women like Bad Boys

@mrfdg1972 (3237)
Philippines
September 12, 2010 10:18am CST
I have seen happy couples where in the guys is a complete jerk and his wife really loves him, what so special with Bad Boys
14 responses
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
12 Sep 10
I am looking for that answer as well, sweetie. That is one thing i cannot understand. I never had a bad guy and i don't want one, thank you. I am happy with the one i have. Not bad at all. TATA.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Everything you ever said puts me on a smile. I have got to go now, see you later. mwah
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
are you kidding me, you are one hell of my lotter
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
13 Sep 10
At least i can make you smile. That is a good thing, isn't it? TATA.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 10
Well, I am a bad woman. Is there any man attracted to me? And yes, I like bad boys too.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
why would you like bad boys, i can be BADest if my girl wants me too.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 10
Because bad boys are more fun. Usually they are more attractive, more skillful in love, know exactly what a girl or a woman needs, excellent seducers, best kissers, best in b-d...
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Yes, they are usually mor attractive because they look more manly than the good ones. Plus, there is less risk of them turning out to be gay.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
12 Sep 10
To answer your topic it is actually SO TRUE! that makes me wonder as well. As they say women like Bad Boys because they are challenging compare to the good ones since they are boring. Because they are actually dreaming about this idea that bad guys will turn into good ones just because of woman. Oh my God! I tell you that is so delusional. I mean I am a woman too but I can't imagine that concept. But they failed to attain it because some bad guys tend to horrify their girlfriends like hurting them physically, cheating them or some more negative actions that can harm a woman. In the end a woman will ask, "how come guys are like that?" "all guys are cheaters or jerks". I mean hello? Did they bother to prefer the good ones that they can love and respect them?
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
You said it, that is my point, i cant believe why women would prefer Bad guys and when the relationship would turn out horrible and still they hang on, that is what i wanted to relay, so beginning today I am Gonna be Bad
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• Pasay, Philippines
13 Sep 10
But of course if you want to be a bad guy image the looks must be also included then just attain their dreams
• United States
12 Sep 10
The women who date bad boys/nice guys is a dumb dichotomy, as many bad boys are wannabee showoffs and most nice guys aren't really nice at all. Drama queen addicts want people who will keep them on an emotional roller-coaster. Then there are those that like the thrill of a challenge and an ego boost if they can get the bad acting person to love them (usually doesn't happen). Niceness is a decision; serial killers have been nice to someone at one point in their lives. People who try to be nice or act clingy in order to make someone love them aren't nice, they're wimpy and/or manipulative The term Bad Boy is defined by the self-proclaimed "Nice Guys" and so is typically used to refer to anyone dating the woman the "Nice Guy" wants to be with.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
so the bad boys are the nice guys and the nice guys are serial killers??
• United States
13 Sep 10
LOL, Sort of a metaphor. That bad boys cannot be defined as murders or crime fighters. Just guys who like to play around and drive women nuts. Some women for some reason like this type of mentality where they get a boost out of being with such guys. That's all.
@katland05 (136)
• Guam
12 Sep 10
mrfdg hi, bad boys but they can change.. My husband used to be but when we had our family & over the years it changed him because he doesn't want his kids to see that side of him.. When we had our family we teach them to love & respect each other so it has to go both ways. For me it take patience & understanding & with lots of love.. The person's past is who they are today & we wouldn't want him any other way. But I know over the years he has change for the better & for our family.. As long as there is love & respect everything will work out, without the respect it's not good. Have a great day!!
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
I hope all relationship would be like yours, wwait what i mean is i hope all the girls would be like you..
• Guam
16 Sep 10
mrfdg hi & thanks, try to do the best for my family. Our loved ones are the most important part of our lives. Have a great day friend...
• Portugal
12 Sep 10
ahah good question ahah im like that :( i like guys but they always end to be careless and i still like them and cant forget them. i just wish i liked good guys^^ i thought i liked good guys but they also end to be bad boys :( didnt find my prince yet or im too blind to see^^ anyway i hate playboy guys and i usually like sweet, caring guys^^ that make me feel happy and special^^ but till now always turnt to be bad boys :( anyway dont worry what we like in bad boys i think is the challenge bcs they seem cold but then they are sweet inside and show it just to us^^ like noone else more can see it but just us :) their gfs^^
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
That is very sweet of you, one day you'll get to choose your bad boy who is a good boy
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
13 Sep 10
I just wore a t-shirt yesterday with words in front 'Good Girls like Bad Boys' I think I am one of those who have soft spot on bad boys. I think I am more drawn to people who are problematic. I would talk them out of their miseries and when they turn into a new leaf I will be very satisfied and happy.
12 Sep 10
Ah! thats a good question. It purely depends on the nature of the women and guess not all women likes bad boyzz. Also, the word "bad" has to be defined here, as you have mentioned, if hez only jerk then whats big deal in it? If he loves her a lot, then of course you should expect her to do the same :)
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
HI Gurupn, Welcome to my lot I cant tell you what the actual differences between Bad and Good Man, for a Bad Boy would be like outgoing, laizzes faire, come what may attitude, but 101% loves his Girl.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Sep 10
There are women that like bad boys...I think it is more of the challenge factor though that draws them. We all have the tendancy to want what we can't have and it might be challenging for a woman to try and "change" a bad boy..lol.
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Hello Mrfdg. Let me answer that question since am a guy. the real reason why is that most so called "bad boys" are quite honest with themselves and only change when a women actually become part of their lives. whereas Nice guys seemed to be in a safe belt where the true nature hasn't been /shown. only rare that nice people are true nice. the rest just keeping that "BEAST" part inside until they are upset or they can't handle the situation. and that's something that women wants to avoid.. there are no nice, but probably good men, which is hard for women to trace. where they see this mostly in bad boys for them to tame. am a nice guy with a cold something inside so i don't think i can have some one any time soon.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
i think you should add good looking bad boys because i'm sure if a woman is given a choice between a bad looking good boy and a bad looking bad boy, chances are most will choose the good boy.
@novelcai (600)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
hi there mrfdg1972, just think of robin padilla, :D (on his all movie) and why lots of girls had a crush on him. :D
@akn1961 (1034)
• India
12 Sep 10
it is not like that exception could be any where ,generally girls like well mannered handsome boys,thanks for sharing.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
yes of course, a well mannered guys would have to be perfect
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
Interesting post. I can't say that all women like bad boys. It's a matter of one's personal preference. I used to like bad boys myself because they tend to deviate from the norms and I love their daredevil attitude. As time passed, I got pretty discouraged. Now I'm looking for someone who is responsible and someone I can trust. I think it's important to have fun in the relationship but security now counts more for me.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
NOw i get it, Bad Boys are for FUN, i mean are funny to be with, the Good ones, are for security.