guy you love says he loves god more than you. what do you do? O_O

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Portugal
September 15, 2010 11:41am CST
hi guys^^ i was in doubt these days about two guys. one is always turning his back to me when we argue but really seemed to love me. other one is like a prince always sweet,caring,cute. anyway i was in love with the first one but lately i was having doubts. today we talked and can you believe that he said he loves god more than me and when i said i love more my bf when i have one he said im selfish and materialistic! i was very chocked. i respect that people love god but love him more than our lover? sorry i cant understand that :( my doubts were over today. what you guys think of this? isnt it chocking? anyway im happy now bcs now i know i can forget him and love who really loves me :) please share your opinions^^
3 responses
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
17 Sep 10
I think it takes guts for a person to admit that he/she puts God first in life, so I would not have a problem with it. However, if I really loved this person, and I wanted to marry them or something, yet they claimed that God wanted them to go to some faraway land as a missionary or something, I may have to argue a little about that, because I wouldn't want to lose her. In the end, however, I probably wouldn't have any hard feelings towards her if she did go, but I would probably spend the rest of my life wondering "what could have been". Then again, if we were really meant to be together, she would come back when the time was right, however, I am sure that I would not want to be away from her if I really loved her.
• Portugal
17 Sep 10
its horrible to say to someone we love that we love god more than that person. im sorry but i felt very chocked. that is just obvious he never loved me. and sure you would be sad if a girl left for that and chose that instead of choose you. it just meant you were not for each other unless she changed her mind^^ anyway im already with someone else and i forgot that guy already. he disrespected me only bcs i didnt agree with him. also my dream was have a bf that loves me more than everything.
• United States
15 Sep 10
That is actually not as uncommon as you think...I am married with two kids and my priority of love is God then family. It all depends on what you believe. I love god more than my family because if it wasn't for God, I would not be blessed with my family and the life I have. I wouldn't go as far as to say you are selfish and materialistic. He needs to be with someone who has the same religous beliefs he does. I think it is good for you to be with someone else.
• Portugal
17 Sep 10
yes^^ but i just was chocked i didnt say any bad words to me like he said to me. just i feel things different. and yes i said to him i decided already. bcs i was a bit undecided between him and other guy. but that moment i was sure we were not meant to be. i always wanted a guy loves me more than everything. for me thats what love is. and love for god is not same than for a lover. also he offended me. i know he loved me but love god more? sorry i cant understand but i respect your view :)
• India
15 Sep 10
Hi sweetloveforeve, Doing one job sincerely and positively in a deeply motivated way is what is God about,after getting up from our bed till again going to bed there is lots of things we do and do mingle with our own parents, family , friends , colleagues and lots of other people with whom we deal with accordingly,those daily deeds if performed truly to its deepest wisdom is what we would be serving the god. God is omnipresent and so we ought to do all our activities to its genuine nature or way and that's all, one not necessarily have to pray to god day and night. Happy mylotting.
• Portugal
17 Sep 10
no i mean^^ im not asking what we must do for god^^ i just meant if someone said he loves god more than you how would you feel like? when that guy said that to me i was very chocked. i felt he really loved me and then he said he loves god more than me and more than all. for me i love my boy when have one more than god, god forgive me. is a kind of different love and love for someone is more powerful in my opinion. thanks for your answer^^