how can i moveon...

Philippines
September 16, 2010 11:43am CST
my loters i can hide the pain i feel and make others think that i move on,but can never deny the truth that the person who failed and hurt me is still the person i wish to love me...what should i do?
3 responses
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
It is just normal to feel that way towards an ex specially if you just came from a fresh break up. Just let yourself feel the pain, cry if you must. Eventually you will get tired of being so lonely. Keep yourself busy, be with your friends, cut off all ties with that person. Dont talk to her/him, dont text,and dont stalk her/his facebook. Decide to move on.
@misheli (554)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
I can understand you. 2 years ago I found out that my husband is cheating on me. I felt really bad and angry at my husband. I confronted him and I even told him to leave in our house and I will file for an annulment. But after 1 week I have realized that my kids need their father and my husband is asking for a second chance and really sorry for what he did to me. I forgive him because I still love him and I can feel that he still love me too. But it's easy to forgive and really hard to forget. Until now I can't forget that he cheated on me. Even if I love him I can't forget what he did to me. The damage has been done and it's hard to just forget it.
@LaurenInLA (2272)
• United States
16 Sep 10
All that you really can do is move on. If the person that you loved hurt you, he is not the person for you and there is someone out there who will treat you with the respect that you deserve. Throw yourself into as many activities as you can. Accept as many invitations as you can. Soon, you'll find that you have moved on. Keep yourself busy and who knows maybe you will meet that guy who is really the one meant for you.