is right to get married to the person you know lees than a week???

September 21, 2010 2:54am CST
a big blast shock for me when one of my friend announces that she will be getting married to the guy she just known less than a week.... most of the people around us said that her decision is not right, because she do not know the guy well yet... but their marriage was already scheduled, could it possibly be a successful marriage, even though they do not know each other that deep???? is there still time i can enlightened my friends mind???
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6 responses
• Philippines
27 Sep 11
If bond with love and true love why not. We can never tell if it works but wishing them the best and by supporting with you and your friends maybe it will last.
@sid556 (31003)
• United States
28 Aug 11
You really can't tell someone what to do when it comes to things like this. As a friend, all you can really do after you have voiced your opinion is offer up moral support and wish her the best. Is it possible that it could work? Of course. The odds aren't with them but it could happen. There are arranged marriages where the couple barely know each other that work out. I've also heard stories where people meet and just know that they want to spend their lives together and don't waste any time tying the knot and years later, they are still happy together. It's rare, I think but it happens. Even if it doesn't work out, your friend will learn from the experience. Just be there for her as a friend.
@jpso138 (7868)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
No one can really tell whether they will make it through or not. Its really difficult to know each other within that time frame. I am sure that they will have a lot of adjustments to do considering that they do not know each other yet fully. Well, some marriages despite having a long engagements also did not succeed. It all depends on both them. Wish them the best of luck if they really want to proceed and be there for support.
@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
21 Sep 10
I don't know if it is necessarily wrong or right, but I do not think it is wise. How can you know a person after a week?
@ddaguno (3110)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
It is shocking but we don't really know how they feel. If your friend really wants to get mearried and she feels that their love will last for a lifetime then maybe you should just wish them well.
@krupesh (2608)
• India
21 Sep 10
You never know whether it works or not as I have seen s many marriages which have been broken even after getting t know each other for more than a year.So you cant really judge whether this one goes well or not but its a bad choice to get married to a person knowing him with just less than a week ago.