how to mend a broken heart..

Well,life is really full of surprises. I can understand what you feel. But,it is true that,partly it is your fault. And finding your love with your close friend in an affair is the last thing you could ever imagine,but it happens. The best way you can can do is,to move on. Ok, i know it's not easy,but,you need to accept the reality. You will find the right for you..and when that time comes,never let it go again no matter what happen. The best lesson learned in life are the one that hurts! Have a great weekend

Count yourself lucky that he went off with another woman now and not when you have just had a baby together or even worse, when the child can remember him. Then you would have had two broken hearts and neither knowing what you did to cause the breakup. Maybe he just got frightened at the prospect of marriage? I know I did when I was too young for marriage when I was in my teens. I then got married at 27 and that was over 40 years ago and still together! It is really tough for you but my advice is to go out with lots of friends of both sexes and have fun. You will never forget him, so accept that and move on. Life is too short to stagnate over a broken relationship.

Being in a relationship for four years are absolutely not a short time. A lot of things have happened between you both, that I am certain. Well, there are many things that you must deal with. First, are you going to continue the relationship with him? Second, if you do, can you (and also he) forget all previous mistakes? Third, I think you have to talk about this seriously with him, because four years are absolutely precious, and I will fight to the end if I am in your position. Well, suppose that you cannot go on with him, I hope you can try your best to accept and move on. I was once in a relationship and it was also four years, but I had to accept that she was taken by others and now she has got one baby. Good luck, and I hope you will not feel that broken heart for a long time.

Hi there, well sorry for what you are experiencing right now. Anyway, i guess you need to "move on" forget the past and live for today or your future. I guess your not really meant to be. I know you had a 4 years relationship but it doesn't mean that its a reason to tell that your meant to be. Well at this time you should move on do something that can makes you happy. I don't ask you to forget everything about him but it can helps. Just think of this what ever happened if your meant to be at the end you will be together, goodluck

Many people seem to have it all together outwardly, but inside they are a wreck. Their past has broken, crushed and wounded them inwardly. They can be healed and of course you as well.God has a plan, and Isaiah 61 reveals that the Lord came to heal the brokenhearted. Only you can do is draw closer to God and receive His healing.

I am so sorry for the situation that you are in. It is difficult to see someone you care about with someone else however it might be a good opportunity for you to move on and show that you have grown from the situation. You may also want to talk to him and express your feelings about the situation. Honesty is the best situation so you might need to put yourself out there and reach out to them

I know it's hurting and painful,but life must go on.What you need is to accept the fact that sometimes things are not meant to be.I know it's not easy,just take one at a time,then surely one day you can move and all those hurtings and pains will just gone.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. The only advise I can give is for you to forget him. Throw away all his pictures and everything that would remind you of him. At least you have discovered this betrayal before you could even marry him. Now you know that he is not the right guy for you. Continue with your life. The right man will come at the right time. Cheer up. :)

I'm so sorry about that all you can do is take it one day at a time .

sounds interesting huh? maybe your closed friend has a special feelings toward your bf for a long time but just kept it secretly. when she knew that your seeing someone, she told your bf about it. Coz your bf was in the state of depression, he's very vulnerable that's the time that your closed friend grabbed the opportunity to get closer to him. i guess that was the scenario.

im sorry to hear that, but you were the one who neglected him first. in your situation i cant blame the guy for looking for someone else, because he thought you dont love him anymore. im not saying also that it was your fault, it naturally happens to every relationship especially when you were together for a long time. just let it be, if he comes back to you, then he's the real one for you, if he dont then you have to move forward and find yourself a new one who will love you and will stay with you no matter what. time heals all wounds as they say.. best of luck girl! :)

ohh..sadly...to say //that last night i breaking up with my boyfriend,so its really get mad ,,so now i am a part of being a broken hearted,,,so when i and my friends have a trip to go to a resort what ever i do ,, i always remember my x boyfriend ..... and every time i hear our team song i can cry,, or what ever love song is that i can cry,,,.... maybe i cant accept not were not mean to be...

I'm sorry you're going through this hun. I know it's not easy. Just remember that time heals all wounds, especially those to the heart. You'll be fine. When I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and I was crying my eyes out, my mother reminded me that in this lifetime you will fall in love more than once. Give yourself some time. The person that's meant for you, will come to you. I know it must hurt really bad, but one day when you're settled down with someone else and you've gotten over your heartache, and you look back on all this, you will see that all he is, is someone you once knew. You will be fine. Best of luck to you sweetie. I wish you the best

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