When To Draw the Line

I'm on the same page as you. i really can say that at the moment i only have 2 friends, by this i mean real friends who i can trust and confide. but, my policy is same as yours, i don't like to waste my time on someone who is not worth it. i prefer to spend little time with some true friends than lots with 'i do not know what' friends. what matters to me is a real friend.

I believe that it is better to have less friends as long as they are for real than having many friends yet are not genuine. Most of my true friends or close friends are males and that is my choice. It is easier for me to get along with them than my female friends. Girls have the personality to b talkative, loves gossiping, and back biting. My male friends never gave me a headache. Besides, they are more protective to me. I have less female friends because I hate their attitude for talking too much especially if they tell things against you.

I think if you don't feed into them they will have to stop. If you constantly change the subject or say things that support who they are catty about it will make them stop. This is something that I have to make myself do. It is so easy to fall into this pattern. I know you can do it.

Ya making friends is good,however sometime it can be dry seasons when friends does not exists, yet it does not mean we made enemies instead, just be friendly and avoid those who mouth are filled with deceit and idle gossipers which cause more headache and trouble who hearts are filled with hatred and envy who honour is their stomach and only lead into destructionhaha.

Hi, I have many levels of friends. I think its best to group your friends like this but of course do not discuss this with any of them. I have friends that I just am friendly to such as most coworkers, people I meet in classes or groups; these are just people that I associate with at work, groups etc., I usually don`t do anything with them outside of that. Then there are the friend I do things with, such as go out together for activities, these are people that I have something in common with, we like the same things and enjoy each other`s company. These friends I`m not close to, just enjoy being around them, and I don`t necessarily keep these friends for life. Then I have close friends, I never have many of these, these are friends I can tell anything to, I trust them, they trust me, these are the friend that I hold dearest. These are the friends I keep for life.

I have many many friends and I always believe my friends but I only confided to close friends

well i do have a lot of friends, but when it comes to certain things i am away from them. I have been married for last 2 years and i dont drink and smoke, but some of my friends do and they also ask me to smoke, but i know that my wife will not like it.An then i stay away from them for this reason.

friendship is tested with time. But there are people whom you have just known for a while but you feel that you have known for forever. These are the precious people you are bound to be friends with forever, if these friends you are talking about are like the latter Itold you, you should not worry of trusting them with your thoughts. But, if yo have the instinct that this person is not trust worthy, then do not trust and put limits, and let time test the real friendship.