Which is better Love marriage or Arrange marriage ????

India
September 28, 2010 2:26pm CST
I still remember the first topic of group discussions that i faced was which is better love marriage or arrange marriage. But even after discussions in the favor of love marriage i was a bit confused and i was in a state of puzzle. Still today i have not found the best out of it.Every relation has its own charm and bad things. But these problems are only due to our mistakes.... So guys can you help me out in choosing which is the better...
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@Downwindz (2231)
• Netherlands
28 Sep 10
Im voting for love - but I think it also highly depends on the culture you are from and what seems to be accepted. Some arranged marriages are still good where each part has the others respect.
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@Lore2009 (7389)
• United States
28 Sep 10
Marriage is another story from love. Marriage is a business contract so I would be open to arranged marriage. I've been married before from love marriage, which didn't work out because we got married. You can't just have love to have a successful marriage, it's more work than that.
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• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Love marriage. Its hard to work out a relationship if you are basically just being practical.
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@aejey322 (1006)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
Obviously, for me, it is love marriage. Because it's your choice to get in to marriage and not by other's decision.
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
For me, I will choose love marriage because in arrange marriage we still need to learn or force our self to love the person that we got married but in love marriage we are already happy in the relationship and we already love the person that we will marry. For me, love marriage have more understanding and trust than arrange marriage because we already know the personality of our partner before the marriage.
@dawnald (84157)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Oct 10
Neither is better. What is better is when both people are committed to the marriage, and communicate, and work out their problems together. Either kind of marriage can work out or not work out depending on the commitment of both people in the marriage.
@mspitot (3834)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Marrying because of love is of course better. How can you live with someone you don't love?
@jovie899 (112)
30 Sep 10
Nothing can beat Marriage with full of love.can you imagine walking down the aisle with someone you don't love?I don't think it will last.
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
29 Sep 10
I think love marriage is better because in love we know each other and know everything about each other. So we can live a better life with each other. But I am against of doing marriage without our parent's permission. I think I want to change my love marriage in arrange marriage. And I believed that my parents never reject my love. They accept it.