long distance relationship should it last?

@jaijaye (168)
Philippines
September 29, 2010 8:58am CST
What do you think about long distance relationship pals? It would be last or not?
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11 responses
• India
29 Sep 10
It depends on the love for each other. Love can really last if they are dedicated and strong with each other and the most important is trust. They should trust each other and shouldn't believe words of others. My relationship didn't last long because someone started a stupid rumor about me having lots of net girlfriends. And my girlfriend believed that and left me. That's really not fair. I have been single ever since. Cheers!
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
29 Sep 10
It is true that trust is very important in a relationship. Trust can make or break a relationship, especially one that is long distance.
• South Korea
29 Sep 10
I personally dont believe in long distance relationship..well no offense,, BUT of course its still between the lovers if what they have is really real absence makes the heart grow founder. Well it depends if you are just BF nad GF its quite hard but still the possiblity is there.. if your Husband and wife.. whatever happens you still have to go back to your family.. so its not really a problem what important is KEEP HOPING..:) goodluck
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@jaijaye (168)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Thanks for sharing princess. I wanna put it up on hoping that our relationship with my bf would be last.:D
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@bagputza (504)
• Belgium
29 Sep 10
In generall i've been made the mistake to get involved u-in such type of relationships three times up untill now ijn my life , and ever since i've said that there will never be the chance to have another fourth deception on these types of relationships , because its just too hard to accomplish , i mean you get to see maybe your actuall girlfriend at the time , you'll get to see her once at three mounths if lucky , and if not you will have to wait mybe Crishtams , New Year and Easter , this will be the only periods in your long distance relationship that if your unlucky you will get to see your girlfriend , and another thing , if you are really unlucky , you will get one night back to surprise yyour actuall girlfriend , you will surprisely see her , holding the hand of another girl , and this will get you curios , so you will followe them to see further whats actually going on , and you'll see them kissing , and thsi will hurt soo bad ; you'll have to control yourself , to not go right then and on the giving moment , to make up a scene , just calm down , and think that this was only normal and give the time , the hurting will go with time and you'll find another girl closer to you and better to be with. Be strong friend and have a great day. Florin , Over and Out.
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
the best answer to that would be, it depends. every person has their own mind,their own choice, their own freewill. if both partners choose to make a relationship last either near or far, it will. but if one gives up, then there's no sense in keeping the relationship. there is no more relationship if its just you left alone. for me, what keeps long distance relationships strong is love, trust, and communication. well, everything else needed is all summed up into love. if you love the person, then you would do what you can to keep him/her happy in your relationship and vice versa. if only one is doing this, then it is expected that the relationship will end sooner or later.
@jaijaye (168)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
Well we both love each other though and we both trust one another.. thanks for sharing:D
@harry89 (2330)
• India
29 Sep 10
i dont think that long distance r'ship lasts long
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• Philippines
30 Sep 10
For me long distance will probably work if you stay connected through communications and the love is still their because it only depends on both of you if you will stay faithful in each other.
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
29 Sep 10
This totally depends on the people involved. If you are speaking of a man and a woman I don't really think it would work out that great. Mainly because I believe men will end up searching for someone that can be close to them and provide them with moments that will fulfill their needs. Some women are this way as well. It would definitely take a great deal of commitment and strong love to make a long term long distance relationship go on.
@BrittneeD (351)
• United States
29 Sep 10
Maybe it just depends how hard you work at it I had a relationship and the guy live about 3,000 miles away and we were together for 7 months and only got to see each other in person once and then it stopped working out, but several friends of mine have had long distance realtionships and ended up marrying the guy once they could be together. So as long as you work at it and really want to be with this person and they work hard to and want to be with you, you can make it work out.
• Portugal
29 Sep 10
yes it can last as long as both love each other^^ if you have a bf and you always care for him everyday and he also does the same to you than yes it can last even forever^^ we all want to be cared and loved and if we have someone that does that to us we dont need nothing else^^ care is all that matters in a relationship and also trust^^ with that you can have a last longing relationship^^
@luxlyangels (1286)
29 Sep 10
I once had a friend who said long distance relationship was sad. Its not really good as i was into it my self and i wasnt faithful for one day even though my girl at that time has never meet no man. I could not hold myself so you see we are always gonna be woman and the phrase out of site is really out of mind and any small temptation would make humans fall,especially when your love is 10000 miles away.
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
I don't know.. but for me i really hate having such kind of relationship.. I do believe in long distance relationship, but i don't believe it will work that good.. I mean, really there's a great possibility that either of the two will be tempted to cheat.. I don't wanna involve such kind of relationship, but if it's already inevitable, I should say , I am willing to do it for the sake of love... Because unfortunately I am about to enter such kind of relationship.. of- course i wouldn't just end the relationship just because the two of us will be apart for a moment or even for years.. Trust and love above all is the only thing that will give me reason to hold on and believe that it will work... So , I guess having that love and trust thing, will make the long distance relationship possible. God bless all