Having to deal with you boyfriend/girlfriend ex

What makes you mad? - How is your relationship when having to deal with your bf/gf ex?
United States
October 1, 2010 1:54pm CST
Ok, here is the question, we all been there and had to deal with your partners ex spouse, what is the most thing that make you mad or jealouse with having to deal with there ex ?
4 responses
• United States
3 Oct 10
when i am talking about something trying to make up for a mistake or something i over looked and they just slide in that there ex never did it. and what makes it worst is they say it and try to hide it, then they try and say they didn't mean it the next day or if i get up set so i think why did you say it then.
• United States
6 Oct 10
I feel the same way as you,my boyfriends ex wife comes up all the time, nothing good though but sometimes it botheres me.
• Bulgaria
2 Oct 10
Mad or jelaouse? Why? I knew im not married to 35 years old virgin. :) But you are right sometimes is annoying have a deal whit ex.
• United States
6 Oct 10
I realy think so too
@LifeGuru (922)
• Canada
1 Oct 10
There comes to the term saying... "First love, last rites." Well hopefully they do not talk about their ex or EXES around you a lot. My boyfriend has never spoke about their exes to me when I try to ask how was this this and this person like? But they tell me that they're b****** and nobody compares to me etc. Like yea forsure I know I'm damn f***ing fine, insane cute, psychotic, sexy, smart, and all those words to desicribe myself from random people who hit on me-- okay not the psychotic part, but that's what I label myself. I've been going strong with my current bf for ages and such and I did not have to deal with any of their exes. None of them had kissed him so I GOT THERE FIRST1!!!!1 GRRR1!!! xD No really, I feel special and honored. :3 I myself has had talked about some other people to him in our first month of dating since I was kind of hung up on someone who was just a crush and nothing more at that time, but that dumb f*** of a friend who I use to like used me and knowing my current bestie at that time my BF he was there hanging on and helping me get through whatever since he just loves me a lot, even when I'm so self conscious about my flaws, he thinks my flaws are fine when I pointed them out and that there's nothing wrong with me. He's my perfect ideal of perfect... But if he ever does talk about his exes around me (which I know he won't since they basically used him and stuff) if he ever does.. I'll kick his a**. ^^ I'm viscious and he admires that, and he tells me time and time again when ever I'm having doubts that he does not wanna lose me, wants to spend the rest of his life with me, etc. He still writes me poetry... And we both agreed to get married in December of 2 years from now. So we're pretty happy... I sort of am, after all... I've NEVER spoke one word of my actual exes, no not the crushes I go on 10 minute walks to 7eleven in high school, or guys I sorta like that I went to concerts with, or going to detention with my crush.. THOSE DONT COUNT. xD As for onliners that I forgot 3/4ths of their names they don't count, people who ask me to be their FWB that I turn down.. Don't count either.. so that sums it up to my dark secret I'm keeping from my BF. -_-" He tells me he's oblivious to my secret that I've been keeping, so I rather tell him when he gets back from his studies since I haven't seen him in a while. It's nothing seriously bad or bad at all though I might pull off a Chris Crocker when admitting it. My BF's definitely for keeps.. so I may as well break it to him about the awkward truth from that lie I told him before I dated him while we were still kinda friends. ^^;; It's just sometimes I wanna tell him that secret, but I can't -- I need him right there so I can tell it straight to his face with what I gotta say. Then I'm going to hide in their closet or under their bed after that coz I know their going to be in shock. We started dating last December so no, I'm not pregnant - I'd be big as a house by now. xD But yea, I am sort of jealous when the term "first love, last rites" comes in play, like c'mon I was not the first love to hold his fricken hand! -_-" Heh heh heh.. least I got to kiss him and wake up every day w/ him and stuff. So.. TAKE THAT EXES!!! :)
@luxlyangels (1286)
1 Oct 10
Jealous? well what can i say? I dont relly know, i try as much aas possible not to know them or have anything to do with them for any reason . thats how i keep the present relationship safe.