Posting Filipino-centric topics on an international site

Philippines
October 2, 2010 12:01pm CST
Hi everyone! Ever since I joined myLot, I noticed that a lot of topics are actually from Filipinos, and the topics are usually those that only Filipinos can relate to. I hope you don't get me wrong - I'm Filipino too, but I think it's kinda rude to post topics that only Filipinos can relate to on an international website :| I mean, come on guys. myLot isn't only for Filipinos. We don't own this site so we shouldn't act like we do :| Besides, when you post a topic, your aim should be to have a lot of people replying, right? So why start a topic that only Filipinos can relate to? Let's say there are plenty of Filipinos here, but should that be a reason to leave out the other members from other countries (which I'm pretty sure, are a majority of the members in this site)?
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@petersum (4522)
• United States
2 Oct 10
You folks have as much right to post topics as anyone else. How can we complain when there are also America-centric topics too. TV shows that none of us have heard of, brand names, supermarkets, stores that are quite alien. And the strange thing known as "the mall", whatever that might be. I don't understand all the Filipino things, but then I don't understand a lot of other people!
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• Philippines
2 Oct 10
I know, but America is one of the most powerful, maybe the most powerful country in the world so most of the things that happen in America are pretty much well-known everywhere else.
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
And the Philippines is...not powerful? And therefore, posts regarding the Philippines shouldn't be as much, as say, posts about America? This seems to be where you're getting at. And excuse me, miss, but I think your logic is flawed.
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Not as powerful as America, obviously. That's not even my point. You sure you're the one whose logic is flawed, miss? :) I'm just saying - everything that goes on in America is pretty much known to the rest of the world. A lot of people from outside the US know about American shows, music, celebrities, etc. but do you think foreigners know as much about Filipino shows, music and celebrities? And no, I didn't say there should be less posts about Filipinos than those about the US or for every other place in the world. I just wanna know why Filipinos post about topics that only they could relate to when they could just post about it on a local forum.
@Angelwriter (1954)
• United States
2 Oct 10
But, is it any more rude than posting topics about college or motherhood? You could say those are universal, but not everyone can relate to them. Not everyone has been to college. Not everyone is a mother. Most topics are going to have people who can't relate. I'm not Filipino, so no I can't relate. I also can't relate to talk about what happened on the latest episode of any daytime soap opera. Or discussions about health issues I don't have. That doesn't mean the people are rude. Heck, there are plenty of discussions on President Obama. I have been curious about the sudden spike in Filipino topics, but I just wondered if a bunch of Filipinos recently joined. But, if I come to a discussion I can't relate to, I just scroll past. I don't see the big deal.
• United States
2 Oct 10
But, I still don't see why it matters. To me, common sense says to post something that can generate discussion. If the discussion only involves the Filipino members, that's great. It's wonderful, it's perfectly valid and makes perfect sense, to me. People start discussions on topics that have very narrow audiences all the time. Some topics will have larger audiences than others, some won't. To me, an international site means topics relating to anywhere in the world are valid. And if it doesn't violate the rules of the site, then they're okay -more than okay. And if they're getting responses to their discussions then, they're doing exactly what they should be doing on mylot. Regardless of where the people live.
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
I'll just yield to this. I know it doesn't break any rules to post something that only a few people could relate to - I really just find it odd. If it were me, I rather post on a local forum where mostly everyone knows what I'm talking about. Unfortunately, no one shares the same opinion I have but that's fine too :|
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
Okay, maybe it's not rude (I only said rude cause I couldn't really find another term), but I don't think it's right to compare posting topics that only Filipinos could relate to with topics such as motherhood, college, etc. Maybe not everyone could relate to those topics, but you can definitely say for sure that more people will be able to. I don't think it's a big deal either but I really just find it odd. It's an international forum. I think it's common sense to post something that people from different countries could relate to.
@o0jopak0o (6394)
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
well everyone has the right to post anything that they can like that will not be a guideline violation. if you looked around there are a lot of topics that only one specific country can relate to.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Don't blame them. That's the main reason why there are different topics here. People would normally respond to a topic they can most relate to. Besides, mylot is such a diverse lot that it's impossible to start a topic that all members could relate to. Posting a discussion that relates to a lot of people doesn't mean either that you will get a lot of responses.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
Just take all comments with a grain of salt. I'm sure some comments can really get on to people. Like how a lot of members reacted to this discussion. Maybe it was just the wrong choice of words, but then, people only respond to the way how you express yourself with words. Just in case you're not aware yet, The Philippines rank third with the most number of members here, so expect a lot more of filipino centric discussions in the future.
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
I'm not blaming anyone. I don't know why people seem to think I'm being hostile when I'm not ^_^; Maybe it was a poor choice of words but I'm not blaming anyone, nor am I complaining or whining. I just really find it odd.
• Portugal
3 Oct 10
aw thats sweet that even you are filipina you worry with other people too^^ yes there are a lot of filipino people here^^ and im happy for it bcs i really love pinoy people^^ even im not^^ but yes sure we must create topics that everyone can reply^^ and not only for pinoy people but i dont think they did it with a bad intention^^ maybe they just didnt notice it^^ but is good that you care for other people is sweet of you^^ but dont be sad with pinoy that did that. for sure they didnt mean to exclude noone^^
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Tolerance from you is in short supply. I haven't seen anyone complaining about the Filipino-centric discussions that you're whining about. People will respond if they feel like it. Whatever kind of topic it may be. It just seems funny that out of all the nationalities you speak of here, a Filipino would be the very first (well I could be wrong about this...) one to complain about Filipino-centric discussions. Chill.
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Apparently, you missed the "don't get me wrong" part in the opening post. I'm not whining, nor am I complaining. I'm just voicing out my opinion, really, and I want to know other people's opinions too. I just find it really odd to post Filipino-centric topics on an international forum where only a minority of members would be able to relate :| If I wanted to talk about something that only Filipinos can relate to, I would post in a Filipino forum.
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong posting Filipino-centric topics since MyLot is for everybody. There are a lot of people here who came from different countries, so we should expect that there will be a huge and different topics here from different cultures. Aside from that, we have the freedom to choose what topic we want to discuss here provided that it abides according to the rules and regulations of myLot. God bless always!
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
THAT'S BECAUSE THERE IS AN INTEREST (Philippines) GOOD FOR FILIPINO MYLOTTERS. ALL have every right to post Filipino Topics there. You don't see us much responding nor commenting on hard political and debatable discussions most specially when it comes to US politics. and every time a foreigner gets to respond in one of US heart of the Issues, some American my-lotters tends to react and prefers us to get involved in our own branch of politics.well, they're right....obviously. there are topics that i don't respond to most specially if it's Foreign Lotters problem in their own country or their lives.specially things that i can't relate to. But at least, when we post topics about the Philippines, they don't have to rely so much on International Media that repost much more on bad things that's been happening in the Philippines. they (foreigners) get the idea from Filipinos themselves what Philippines really is and not just what the media says. Foreign Lotters can respond, at least if they ask something they can't understand, we can tell them. and they learn something from us as we learn something from them (foreign lotters).
@jennbart (1330)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Just let people be. There are lots of American topics and I do not have that much knowledge on US politics... Pres Barack obama etc.. but its ok.. to each is own. I think, quantity in terms of answers are nothing. I think quality of posts and answers matter the most. When a person posts be it American, Filipinos, Indonesian, Chinese.. etc. a topic will just pop up in their mind whatever they think is interesting to talk about. Thats about that. If I will create a topic, I will just create a topic I know people can relate to.. in general. Filipino- centricism will not even enter my mind when creating a topic. :) Besides, by creating Philippine topics here may educate other nationalities as we also get educated with their topics they create.
@sjhaeki (795)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
yeah there are a lot of Filipino topics around, I've started one before too. I think the Filipino-centric/Philippine-centric discussions can be put into a minimum, perhaps its a good way to inform others of what is happening to our country but well... just put it in a minimum, can't really explain it. Though I have seen others putting discussions about issues regarding their places too, well, we are informed of each others' issues and problems.
@sjhaeki (795)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
yeah there are a lot of Filipino topics around, I've started one before too. I think the Filipino-centric/Philippine-centric discussions can be put into a minimum, perhaps its a good way to inform others of what is happening to our country but well... just put it in a minimum, can't really explain it. Though I have seen others putting discussions about issues regarding their places too, well, we are informed of each others' issues and problems.
@pinoycity (575)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Like most of the comments, I believe there is nothing wrong in starting a discussion which talks about anything Filipino. This is not rude, this is, actually informative. We cannot be accused of being rude because we are using english in commenting or posting response.