I like this girl, but I'm a girl!

Philippines
October 3, 2010 12:49am CST
When I started college, I met a girl in our English class. She's very cute and very feminine. I like the way she talks and recite in front of the class. When we had a chance to write something about ourselves, she had this very interesting topic about her life. After writing, our teacher said that we need to read it in front of our class. She raised her hand excitedly and stared to walk in front. I never have thought that a girl so feminine like her will think about having a relationship with another girl. She also shared that she was very lucky to have her dream come true. You know what it is? To kiss a girl. Hmmm, well, I am a girl also and I sometimes look at girl and admire them. Have you experienced this?
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9 responses
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
20 Nov 10
At first I thought it was because you were starting to consider the lesbian lifestyle. Then, as I read the other comments, I began to think not. If you are married and you like your husband pretty well, then that is good. So I am thinking that you are admiring this girl because of the qualities you see in her. Maybe these are important qualities you see in your own life. You may also be celbrating the fact that you are a woman and therefore posessing some of the same attributes as this girl. Either way, why don't you befriend her. See what she is beyond looks. Once you know her as a friend, you will be ready to respond properly when she kisses you full on the mouth, with tongue!
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
24 Nov 10
Sometimes the people we want to be in our life have to move away. That is sad. Were you able to develop a friendship with her, or was she more like a role model? Have a wonderful Thanksgiving.
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
Sorry for the late comment dear. The bad thing is, I don't see her anymore and I hope to see her in the future. Well, I do see a lot of girls and I don't see anybody like her. I really admire her because she let people know who she really is and she's very honest about her self. That's why I admire her so much.
• Philippines
26 Nov 10
I think a role model, I was not able to know more about her or know the things she wanted to do in life. We always just see each other when we have our English class. So, I wish, I meet her again the future.
• United States
4 Oct 10
I find females that look like men attractive. But not feminine ones.
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
sporty figure of a girl really attracts guys
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
8 Oct 10
There's a guy who'll go for any type of a Girl...petite,tall,thin,Big..thin figure,curvy,short hair,long hair..you name it..
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
But maybe it depends on the life style of the guy, or if he is really attracted to that girl.
@ShepherdSpy (8544)
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
4 Oct 10
I think it's hard to identify what qualities in another person results in our wanting to form a relationship with them,be it platonic or not..It could be something in them that echoes what you feel or see about yourself,and you're getting drawn to that..Strangely enough,when You mention it,some of my dreams about kissing Girls have come true also...
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
Strange...but that's human. We people sometimes wanted to be happy in different ways, making dreams that are impossible to happen.
• Omagh, Northern Ireland
8 Oct 10
..but in saying that about My Dreams,just for the record,I'm a Guy! :)
@luxlyangels (1286)
4 Oct 10
Yes ,all the time. But i am a guy. Who doent wanna kiss a girl. And whats wrong with all the guys around you? If i was around you i odnt think you will be liking her!
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
I'm don't like her I just admire the way she is. Well, if you're around, I don't know.....
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
I think admiration is normal but to doubt your sexuality base on it is a completely different thing. Yes, we may see, like or acknowledge the strength and beautiful traits of another person and we may want to have that guts to express ourselves or be daring in our life but we must not compare ourselves to them. We must decide what do we want in our life. If we see something good in them that would be nice but we also have our own strength. I hope that whatever we like in ourselves and in others would just make us a better person not something to doubt ourselves or put ourselves down or make us feel inferior to another person. Love yourself, improve yourself, be a better person than the one you admire because you are equally a beautiful person just like them. You're also an inspiration to another person... and someday they'll tell you how you've inspired them at a moment in their lives. I hope you'll make a good decision about your life right now and be the best inspiration.
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
Thank you for your advice, knowing myself completely may help me about things like this in the future. I'm still knowing what really I want in life even though I have my own family now. I was married at 19 and was not able to enjoy being single longer but I think that's not the case. Knowing more about myself should be the answer to all this.
• United States
3 Oct 10
Love is not about gender,but some specific person with some characters you admire.When you love someone ,just go aheah,don't hesitate.
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
So you are saying there should be no boundaries?
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
It is now very normal to meet somebody to have a relationship like this in the Philippines too.
• United States
3 Oct 10
No boundaries,and there are so many gays or lesbians in the world among them are DaVinci?and many famous people. That's normal.
@reneezoso (392)
• India
4 Oct 10
well...cant make out much from what u said.. but certainly u have lesbian feelin(no offence).. think over it.. and im sure u will ffind ur answer what u really want/
• Philippines
4 Oct 10
hmmm, I was just wondering if i'm like her (my classmate from english class). but sometimes I really choose guys to love than girls.
@pogi253 (1586)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
You are wondering if your a lesbi@n or not? that is no reason to discount where you are right now. You may find as you get older you are attracted to one s3x more than the other. Or you may continue to be attracted to both s3xes. You will know you are a lesbian when you are ready to label yourself as one. Just be at your age and unsure. It's really okay. Be easy on yourself. In time you will figure it out. I encourage you to talk with supportive friends, read books with g@y and lesbi@n characters.
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
No, not like that. I was just wondering why a girl like her want to have a relationship with a girl also, I do admire girls but i don't wanna kiss them or touch them in some way. I just admire them on how they carry themselves and be very confident. I have a husband and one baby boy.
• India
3 Oct 10
Hello i think there is nothing abnormal in this now, but if this trend continues one can brand herself as lesbians, there are tons of lesbians an bisexuals too.. Thanks for sharing. Cheers. Professor. .