ur bf/gf tells u that he likes u with blonde hair. would u paint it for him?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
October 5, 2010 4:03pm CST
hi guys^^ imagine that your bf/gf tells you that he/she likes you with blonde/brown/black hair^^ anyway a hair colour that is different than what you have ahah would you paint your hair for him/her?^^ just to please them?^^ about me i wouldnt mind at all^^ if he thought i look good with hair like that i would trust him and do that for him^^ is not a big deal and he would be happy^^ so i would for sure^^ what about you guys?^^ would you?^^ please share your opinions^^ 
7 responses
@MTElemiaC (65)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
fOr me. if that bOy really lOves me, why he didn't accept whO I am and whAt I am. I dOn't care if he really likes a girl with bLonde hair, whAt I need is he is cOntented Of what I have right nOw.
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@chanchalchopde (361)
• India
5 Oct 10
ohh so rude! to some extent you are absolutely right but sometimes you should care about what your bf likes.you should do some things in his favor even if it doesnt suits you.Your bf will also care for you and he will respect your love even more.
hope my comment didnt hurt your ego.
@Wizzywig (7847)
•
6 Oct 10
Like I said, I've done the living my life to suit others bit so no, I wouldn't - it may be just a small change but, like I say, if its a blonde he wants then he doesnt want me. Similarly, I dont expect anyone to change their appearance in any way for my benefit. If you're not happy with the way the person looks then IMHO your relationship is shallow... and yes, there are plenty of other things I wouldn't do either.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
Hello SLF,
NO WAY...he must love me for what i am and who i am and not for what he wanted me to be according to his likes.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Oct 10
jaiho^^ yes i understand your point but i didnt mean change forever^^ he was just like suggesting you paint it blonde bcs he likes it and to see if you would like also^^ sure didnt mean he just like blondes and doesnt care for you^^ was just a change for a bit^^ sometimes is good to make some changes to make our self esteem higher^^
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
6 Oct 10
Hi dear,
You can accept his suggestion. But the fact is that if it doesn’t suit you, what will you do? At a certain extent, the hair style or colour may look good for many, but for some people, it won’t. Suppose, imagine, if it doesn’t look good, will you feel to come out of the home, till it get changed to the normal one. Not. So, only because, your h/f said it, you should not do it. It should look good, look nice, look pretty, etc. In such case, it will be good.
Also, there is another part of this story. If it looks good, then only he will suggest you, otherwise, he himself may say, that darling, it won’t look good for you, so don’t go for it. This is a symbol of his love towards you. Anyway, looking on your hair, I think it will look good for you. As long as it is a matter of hair, after a few days, it will grow by its own shape. So need less to worry, if not look good, you can keep the way how you like it.
Regards,
Thank-s
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
7 Oct 10
Hi,
Did you try to change the colour of the hair? How is it look? Do and take snap and forward him and get his comments.
Regards,
Thank-s
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Oct 10
i wont paint my hair with blonde ahah my bf didnt ask me too actually^^ i just wanted to make a discussion to see people opinions^^ anyway if he asked i would try it out^^ i never painted my hair and i would like to try it^^ but i want to put some pink lights ahah maybe is crazy but i want to try iy^^ wish my bf will like it if not is ok anyway ahah^^ you are right we must paint if think will look good^^
@mustafarox (453)
• India
6 Oct 10
I would do anything to make my girlfriend well it is just to color my hair if she would tell me to give my life I would do that also If she is happy then I am happy...
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Oct 10
aw thats so cute that you would do anything for her^^ and yes is great that you would paint your hair for her^^ is like you say is only paint your hair is not a big deal thing^^ and give your life for her thats cute that you would do that also^^ it means you really love her so much^^ and sure if she is happy you will be happy too bcs you care for her^^ thanks for your sweety answer^^
@chanchalchopde (361)
• India
5 Oct 10
Yes i would do that but only if it will really look good on me.We should do things to please our gf/bf but we should not lose our sense.Sometimes if we do things in partner's favor then he/she starts dominating us.But i am very lucky that my gf loves everything about me and she thinks i am perfect for her.nothing i should change.Sometimes i ask her things like i look good or not,my hair is good or bad,about my physic etc.
And i think you look better in black hair (if the pic on the display is yours).
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 Oct 10
aw i see^^ sure if looked good^^ ahah wouldnt make a change and then feel bad with it at all^^ and yes is true if we always makes things as our lover wants things can go wrong. and he can start to want to control us. thats not good at all sure^^ im happy that your gf loves you the way you are^^ thats great^^ it means she feels attracted to you and loves you^^ my hair is brown and yes the pic on display is me^^
@wollivierre (688)
• United States
6 Oct 10
yep i mean i shave for her even though i would anyway but its not that big of a deal.
