What would you do in this situation
By casnoking
@casnoking (87)
October 6, 2010 10:01am CST
I was quiet amazed at how my best friend handled this situation. Not knowing it will end up destroying his life. My friend is a body builder, I mean a very strong guy who works as a bouncer with one of the night clubs in our neighborhood.
He has to live home to work at 8:00pm from Tuesday to Sunday living his loving wife at home. I sometimes go to the club just to see him and chat a little. One day when my friend left home for work, he forgot his wallet in one of his jeans trousers. Not quiet happy happy about that, my friend rushed back home around 10:00pm to pick up his wallet. To his surprise, there lies his wife and another man on the bed naked.
What would you have done???. Talking about it brings sadness to my heart. Tell me what you would have done and I will continue with what my best friend did which destroyed his life....
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11 responses
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
6 Oct 10
Did he kill the man and did he go to jail?? I'm so curious. Your best friend have to realise though that he never been there at night, can't he get a day time job? If I was a man I wouldn't leave my wife all alone in the night lol :D it's dangerous. OK, so if I was your best friend that time, oh, yes I will be angry but where did I just came from? It's night time.. does his wife work in the night too, if not then sounds like they never had time together. So the husband has to think back before doing anything, search where the mistake started. then decide what to do after that. getting mad is getting mad, but the wife maybe is over with him because they never had romantic intimate time together lol. Now, may I know what happened to him? :P
@casnoking (87)
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6 Oct 10
My friend is quiet huge and muscular. My friend raised his two elbows and leaned them on the door way, creating a very tiny space in between his armpits. He called the wife "SOPHIE". The moment she woke up, she started begging and crying. My friend just told the guy to pick up his clothes and walk through his armpits. The guy started begging , crying, asking the woman to plead on his behalf. For about 40 minutes, the guy gathered courage and passed through that narrow space. My friend then told the wife to pack her stuff and also use the same door the guy used. The cry of the woman woke up the neighbors, but everybody was afraid to even come close to my friend. After 2 hours of begging and crying, my friend's wife finally left. After that, my friend just took his two kids to his mother's house and came to my place to tell me everything.
After narrating the story to me, I didnt know what to say but to tell him to take it easy. He left my place around 6:00am and at around 10:00am I had a call that my friend has been admitted at the Asylum Hospital. Meaning, he has gone mad. Anytime I visit him, he doesn't even remember my name....Thats the price he paid for love....
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
6 Oct 10
Oh my God, I must apologize for my comment! I randomly made a guess and I was so curious at the same time as you didn't finish the story. I thought he must have done something opposite. Mate, I'm really sorry :( I think you should've mentioned that they also have kids in the beginning though.
How long until now this thing happen. And as you said he can't even recognize you anymore, so I'm guessing it is the same for the kids and his parents too, this is really sad. I dunno if I wish he would regain his memory again or not, I would hope for the kids that he would but it will be too much pain for him :(
@sbramirezB (60)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
for me i will talk to my wife and ask her a question why she had done this things to me(knowing that i never done something wrong to her) to know what her part, then after it thats the time will make move, but it takes a Great patient to do it if you got only a small patient for sure you will really kill the guy who is with your wife
then the next is your wife..
@casnoking (87)
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7 Oct 10
Cool down my man, you dont have to kill anybody. Remember the police will never understand you..
@TonyPluto (171)
• United States
7 Oct 10
Holy Crap!
Your friend is awesome.
I hope he didn't hurt anybody
But to go totally mad like that
is pretty badazz.
If That happened to me
And I was all super strong like him
I'd very carefully carry the bed out into the street
without waking them up.
And hang their clothes way up high where they would have to jump to reach them.
It's really a terrible story
I hope your friend recovers soon.
@ceasarette (145)
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7 Oct 10
Oh, that's terrible! Honestly, I don't know what I would have done if that happened to me. I guess he could've found a job with a better time, but still, that is not an excuse. His wife should have talked to him about looking for another job or something. Besides, they still time to be together during your pal's days off. This is a very sad story, and I hope it goes well in the end.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
6 Oct 10
I guess none of us really know what we would do in that situation until it happens to us. Obviously your friend was shocked and devastated by what he saw. I have had dreams where I caught my husband cheating and mostly I just yelled get out a lot. If the girl just left that would probably be it with her, but if she sassed me or anything like that I would probably smack her, I might I might not I don't know. Then I would probably ask my husband if wants to leave or should I. I think that would be best is for one of us to leave until I have a chance to calm down then we can talk about it when I have calmed down. I think it would be me who would probably have to leave. I would certainly hope the kids would not be around to witness any of this.
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
6 Oct 10
if i saw my bf with other girl in bed i would say that he is a pig and wouldnt see me ever again. how could that girl dare to cheat on your friend? he loved her and was working for them to have a good future. how could she dare to cheat on your friend? thats so mean :( well you said that you were amazed with his reaction so i guess he just left for work with his wallet and continued with his gf right? and then got hurt again and thats how he destroyed his life :( is it?
@kristeena (358)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
That was a sad story of your best friend. I feel sorry for him and his two children. I hope his children will get over with the trauma that had happened to their family and for him, hope he can get back to his senses again.
@sbramirezB (60)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
for me i will talk to my wife and ask her a question why she had done this things to me(knowing that i never done something wrong to her) to know what her part, then after it thats the time will make move, but it takes a Great patient to do it if you got only a small patient for sure you will really kill the guy who is with your wife
then the next is your wife..
@sam8pro (376)
• India
7 Oct 10
I guess this holds true for everyone .... no matter how strong you are from outside if you are mentally not strong enough the world will just crush you ... the man suffered for no fault of his ... this is really sad ... you should try to help as much as you can may be getting more involved and telling him about the incident in a slow and soft manner
