What kind of person bores you the most?

India
October 7, 2010 12:45am CST
Hello friends, I can't stand people who always impart negative thoughts. Persons with lack of imagination and sense of humor also bore me a lot. I am not comfortable with people who ask a lot of unnecessary questions. I love to mingle with people who are fun-loving, gentle, positive and caring. What about you guys? [i] [b]What kind of person bores you the most? What kind of person interests you the most? [/b][/i]
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@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 10
I'm hate people that have a quasi-personality leader, grumpy, stingy and miserly. I'm most enjoy with someone who have a personal often helpful, friendly and not arrogant
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• Malaysia
7 Oct 10
You are right, grumpy, stingy, and miserable also bore me too. It is hard to enjoy time and life with them. I must never go anywhere with them or I will be wasting my time.
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@vandana7 (98834)
• India
7 Oct 10
I too agree about grumpy, stingy, and miserable lot. :)
• China
9 Oct 10
I also hete stingy person,especially stingy man.
@kodukodu84 (1569)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 10
I have this friend that is really making me bored at the moment. She had an argument with her bf, and the bf is not wanting to talk to her. She told me he got angry because she wanted to test him by accusing him of having another gf. She kept telling me she's afraid, hurt, sad, and dunno what to say and dunno how to say sorry to her bf because the bf always try to avoid her. For the last one week, she has been bugging me with her sadness and asking me what to do, and it has been a week of me telling her what to do, how to do it, and what to say....but she said will try will try will try, but never done it yet, haven't said sorry yet...and still bugging me with her tears, God, honestly, I'm pissed and bored. I've turned my chat off on FB now for 2 days already. No point helping your friend when they don't listen anyway, hoping that she gets pampered without her doing anything. A person who demand for attention all the time also bore me. Bragging, clingy, and also can't live without friend for a day lol..I have another friend like that :D As for what kind of person that interests me, I'm interested with someone who is open-minded, know how to handle him/herself in many situations, adventurous, funny, and independent.
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• United States
17 Nov 10
I've had a friend like that before and you can only take so much.. you can only try to help for only so long, and some friends like this will have crises after crises like they're addicted to crises and it's how thy get attention and they seem to need to lean on you all the time. Especially if you have a husband and especially children you simply cannot sacrifice all that time and energy for them and shouldn't have to. If I was demanding all that attention and support I would feel like I was being selfish and self centered. Guess I've been there a time or two too often!
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• China
9 Oct 10
I think she buged you so much just because she was so sad and so anxious ,as a friend of her ,I think you might be some patient
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 10
I'm hate people that have a quasi-personality leader, grumpy, stingy and miserly. I'm most enjoy with someone who have a personal often helpful, friendly and not arrogant
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• United States
17 Nov 10
haha! I hate that when that happens!
@vandana7 (98834)
• India
7 Oct 10
Oh great biswa. We will get along really fine! I am negative only when something negative comes up, like a negative topic, or some negative event. :) Left on my own, I wouldn't go near the negativity in thoughts or deeds. The first thing I did this morning was scream daddy radio. :) Fun-loving, absolutely - but inclined to be a bit private as well. Gentle - depends upon your definition. Positive - I already explained. Caring - Not too sure about this one. And I am 100 percent certain I am not a guy but I am answering it anyway. Just wanted to hear you say ma kiddo. :)
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@vandana7 (98834)
• India
7 Oct 10
As to who bores me, I agree with Advokattu. :) And whom I like - essentially a person inclined to have fun, and clear cut in thinking. I like sentimental fools as well, but if somebody said with whom you would like to spend the day with, my choice would be the fun-loving no dips into religion, politics, love, and whatever. :)
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@vandana7 (98834)
• India
7 Oct 10
I forgot to add - the person should essentially be sensitive enough to understand what can hurt another person, and refrain from it. I do not like people who mind others business, psychophants, who do not accept no for no. :)
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
7 Oct 10
Are you sure, you are done adding everything now, Vannie?
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@onlywan (182)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
I get bored with someone who ONLY talks about oneself and one's accomplishments and has no regard for my opinion, a person who thinks highly about himself thinking that he is above others. Also people who doesn't even know how to smile or laugh. At kapag manhid.
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• Philippines
9 Oct 10
yes thats true .... you mean NAGMAMAYABANG..
@eamr_25 (26)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
I got bored with people who don't have the sense of humor...super serious that either you tell him a joke, he didn't response even a single smile. Those who keep on telling a non-sense thing even you tell him that he's saying that things from the first time you've met. Those people who don't understand or take seriously what you are saying. Those people that are insensitive.
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@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
i am a happy person and i get bored with people who are over dramatic when it is not necessary. i get bored with people who have low levels of IQ, who understands a joke late. i get bored with people who are narcissistic. i get bored with lazy people. and the list goes on. to wrap it up, i get bored with people who are a total opposite of me.
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@vandana7 (98834)
• India
8 Oct 10
Hi bingskee - I want to be your friend. :)
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
hello dear little bhai, People with "i know it all attitude " As if they're the best in everything,giving unsolicited advise,butting in,interrupting in any discussion that he/she hears (they're not invited/participants ugh!) People who correct other people without consideration that they might have hurt the concern and put in a shameful situation (sick thinking). People who doesn't know how to appreciate simple things and seems to have a dirty teeth always and never smiles (bitter) And,people who keep blaming other people without looking at themselves (perfectionists huh...or...insecure ) how are you now my dear bhai...tired of chatting?(hahaha) i miss you here in mylot
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• Philippines
9 Oct 10
you got it right jaiho... same here I do hate those people you've just mentioned.. I AGREE TO YOU ON THAT!!!!
• China
9 Oct 10
yeahhh,both of you got it right !!I hate people who think he's the strongest man around the world
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
7 Oct 10
I am not often bored by other people. i like to see what makes people tick. When i do find myself on a rare occasion to be bored by someone, it is usally the kind of person who thinks that they are better than anyone else. there is no pleasing this person no matter how hard you may try. My interest in them would fail fast.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
7 Oct 10
I don't like people who talk about themselves the whole freaking day, sweetie. No sense of humor and a lack of manners. Sulking and nagging gets on my nerves. Tiring to work with people like that. I love people with an awesome sense of humor. People who can stand up for themselves. People who learn thru their mistakes in life and don't give up. TATA.
@vandana7 (98834)
• India
7 Oct 10
Looks like I have all the qualities you mention under the "love" category!!! Are you sure you like people like me sweetie?
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
7 Oct 10
I think i will shock you, if i have to tell you what kind of people i really like, Vannie.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
7 Oct 10
@chanlot (189)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 10
Emm ..... I'm most tired of stupid people, do not know anything, no experience and can never be disconnected if I invite her discussion. I like and comfortable against clever people and concern for others.
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• United States
7 Oct 10
Compulsive liars and ones who just have to get the last words. Can we just understand that we can agree to disagree.. outside of this term I can't bored..
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• Philippines
7 Oct 10
Of course, we want our company to make us happy not suffer boredom with them. However, let's face the reality that every person is unique. What we can do is just to be flexible enough to be with various characters and appreciate what's positive in them.
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7 Oct 10
the one that bores me most is one who don't want to talk at all. and i like those who are friendly all the times.
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@raven66 (335)
• Canada
8 Oct 10
Sarah Palin types~~
• India
9 Oct 10
But she is so damn good looking. I just love looking at her for hours.
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
I get bore with people who complains a lot. It's okay to complain sometimes but doing this almost everyday and almost the entire day is not healthy especially if the complain is just the same. I also get bore with obnoxious and conceited people. They love to get all the attention. They do all the talking and never listens. The worst is the topic is just always all about them usually bragging how great they are. I love talking with people with sense of humor, open- minded, positive and optimistic.
• India
1 Nov 10
Hello, I know exactly what you're talking about. I meet such people everyday. They are always complaining. Sometimes they just try to prove that they bear a relatively higher values and tastes than all the others. They don't know how to show their superiority by themselves, so they try to prove others incompetent and thereby expect others to show them more respect. This kind of people often suffer from lack of self esteem. People with sense of humor, flexibility and optimism are fun to be with. It is because they always influence you to look at things with a positive perspective. Some times being with such people can even become a life changing experience. It seems like these people always radiates positive energy all around them. Thanks. God bless you.
@mauie0918 (337)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
I am really bored for those people who don't even share when you're talking. They just listen, smile and can't even discus things! I like a person who also shares his ideas.
• Thailand
4 Nov 10
i don't like person who joking me,if they joking for fun, i like it. but if they tell me the lie , i am very angry about it. i like person who say and work as they said.
• China
9 Oct 10
oh,I have just figured out the most boring people in my life,oh god ,she is such a ****!!She is one of my colledgemates,she aways sort of compeled us to know what she is doing ,what she have done ,and what she will do ,oh ****,even though none of us want to know.she aways show what a brilliant woman she is ,however she is just a ugly dog.I AM SORRY I HAVE SAID SOME BAD WORDS JUST BECAUSE I HATE HER SO SO SO SO MUCH!!I can't stand her at all but I have to see her everyday,we have class together.Oh my god ,how come I have such a classmate!!
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
9 Oct 10
Hi jsll...hate is a bad word...you are only suppose to hate what you love! if you don't love her why do you hate her so much?...besides hate is just a waste of time! and at the end of the day hate will make you old, wrinkly, and bitter. Any way welcome to MyLot I hope you enjoy your stay here.
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Hello friend!!In my point of view, that makes us who we r. For me there's no particular person in anyway that bores me. It's just that, the truth lays behind is We are not interested to that certain person.
• India
1 Nov 10
Hello, Well it has been observed that a totally uninteresting personality can bore you to a great extent. Being in company with such a person for a long time may even create stress in your mind. But, like you've already mentioned, the whole thing finally rests on our own interpretation about that personality. In such a distressing situation, you must try to find at least one positive feature of that boring personality and continue thinking about that point as long as you're with him. Thus you avoid being stressed out just by changing your perspective about that person. Thanks so much for your contribution. God bless you.