why can't i forget this one person from the past???

@genevy04 (793)
Philippines
October 11, 2010 12:26pm CST
Hi there myLotters, There is this one instance in my life that I can't really forget and I don't know if I'll ever will. I guess I won't, specially the person involved.. It's not that I still have feelings for him or anything, it's just that I guess that if there's this specific person that I have witnessed a special character, I think that would be him.. When I was still single, I used to work in an Appliance center owned by the most popular mall owner here in our country. There was this new Supervisor who was really handsome and tall.. Everything in him is attractive and he's been a heart throb in an instant. One officemate told me she sometimes notice the guy looking at me. But I just said she might be mistaken. I just told her " that kind of guy, I would never dream of" because I think his standards for girls are super high.. But then he would say he wants us to eat together and have the same break time.. He even asked for my number and we texted. he then tild me he liked me, and that he can imagine himself waking up one day with me beside him. He said he could imagine life with me.. But thing is, I was gonna get married the following year with my long time boyfriend. So I didn't entertain him a lot.. But he did efforts to have the chance to talk to me. I would say I liked him too. But, it is not to be. So one day, I didn't show up at work and soon resigned already. I did that to avoid him. He told me he was so upset at what I did. Just told him it was the right thing for me to do... Until now I haven't seen him. We are friends on FB, and even on Friendster.. But w don't talk anymore.. He is very private there.. I can't even get a clue on what's up with him.. I think I'll never forget meeting someone like him.. Someone whom I didn't even expect that will be interested to me.... has this sort of happened to you? or do you have opinions? THANKS EVERYONE!!
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4 responses
@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
hello dear! sounds interesting huh? have you tried asking yourself that question? well,it seems like you like him,but just decided to avoid him cause you already had marriage plans. he seems to be private in his fb account? maybe,he just don't like to share what's up with him. it's our every right to keep private things to ourselves. maybe he just don't feel like revealing himself too much in online world. you can consider that. cause i,too can be that sometimes. i don't like broadcasting my feelings or what's up with me sometimes. i can be sometimes be misunderstood by my post sometimes at my fb account though. well,anyways,i can feel that you are happy now with your husband... but if you need a friend,or someone to talk to,i'm just here,okay?^_^
@genevy04 (793)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Hi dear, really interesting?? well it should be! haha! and it's a tough secret! Yes I did like him, A lot. But things wasn't meant to be that way.. he is naturally a private person I guess.. But during our time, he opens up to me.. And I'm glad I had the chance to witness that side of him..Even for just a short time.. Anyways, life must go on and past is past.. I am happy now and that's what counts.. Thanks dear..
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@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
haha,yeah. you can trust me,i won't tell it's a tough secret! well,at least you have witnessed that side of him. i just hope you are not having regrets when you took the other step... you are right! past is past,and i know you are happy with what you are having right now. by the way, nice to see your read star,dear!
@genevy04 (793)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
Yeah definitely no regrets at all.. But there was a time I regretted that decision.. Good thing everything's okay now, well at least. I am now rated 9. Thanks..
@sonusd (1534)
• India
16 Oct 10
Girls never forget there first love as he is not your first you should not care about him and yes this is never possible to forget any moment if you have lived that from your heart, You have given him the place in your heart, so its not easy to forget but try to busy your self with your regular job and always try to be with your friends then only your mind will divert which will help you not to think about him but there is no permanent solution to forget him.
@genevy04 (793)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
Indeed true sonusd.. I don't really think about him as in always, but I still remember him. I mean I guess he can't be deleted anymore on my memory.. He's been in that part of my life and pasts can never be changed.. I will always remember him, but of course that's it. I do not intend to cultivate anything beyond this memory.. I don't have feelings for him anymore, and I am loving a man which is my husband.. Thanks for your response sonusd..
@SHAMRACK (8351)
• India
12 Oct 10
Dear friend, I feel that some people giving a touch to our heart, they keep a place to our. If you believe in rebirth or previous birth may be they might have some sort of relationship with us. I do have people whom I cannot forget even though those people I know along with mostly forgotten also.
@genevy04 (793)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
Yes dear.. I think reincarnation is true.. I have read a book about it and I have learned from it that the people we meet in our current life, most probably we have met before in our past life.. People we meet may touch our life.. They may come and go.. We may forget the others but others we may remember for as long as we live.. what's important is, we know how to cherish them dearly.. Thanks for your response shamrack..
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
11 Oct 10
I also have someone I can't forget. He also entered my life and things didn't work out....but because of him I started writing again....three books later I still think of him and the inspiration he was to me!
@genevy04 (793)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
Thanks jillhill for responding.. Wow so you are a writer? Once I have dreamed of becoming a writer too.. Even if things didn't work out for the both of you, good thing you made him your inspiration instead.. Certainly I think that one person will surely make it to our memories.. I mean, there will surely be someone that we won't forget because of who they are or who they were in our life.. Happy myLotting dear and I hope for the best for you..