Is it selfish for women to want you always on top?

Egypt
October 13, 2010 12:39pm CST
My friend was talking about how she wants her boyfriend to always be on top but doesn't want to seem selfish while asking him? does it really make a difference?( not to women because it obviously does to her) but to men , do you care whose on top and whose bottom? and if you do , what do you prefer?
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ravinskye
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
13 Oct 10
I guess it depends on her reasons for it. Is she not comfortable on top? Or does it just not feel as good? I think if it just doesn't feel as good that it might be a little selfish, because maybe for a guy it feels better for the girl on top. I think she just needs to talk to her boyfriend and figure it out with him. Maybe he would be bored with only doing him on top all the time.
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ivaylo2009
@ivaylo2009 (973)
• Bulgaria
15 Oct 10
Its a normal position.I think that it isn't selfish.About what I prefer is depend of my partner.Some of girls knows some tricks to make you feel extraordinary when they are on the top.The main thing is to give pleasure each other no importance the position.
ebuscat
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
For me in the bible the women is always under to the men so be take hat all decision the men will take it the lead.
jamed28
@jamed28 (1903)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
Yes I think so. DO it by sharing the task. Well most men are aggressive but those aggressive men also wanted their women to be sometimes aggressive also.
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
14 Oct 10
actually i was thinking that when i try it for first time would like my bf be on top^^ if we ever do it bcs we are very far^^ but would like bcs i dont feel enough comfortable to be ^^ im a bit shy actually so i dont imagine myself doing that^^ but when we are more comfortable i guess is ok^^ anyway i dont see nothing wrong if is girl on top^^ but maybe your friend doesnt feel ok so prefers that be her bf^^ for guys i think they dont mind much but also they like different things so maybe would be ok if she tried it once to see^^
mikaela8132000
@mikaela8132000 (144)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
i dont think it selfish. i guess that just how she want or the only way she can make her self feel better and i guess that is her boyfriend resposible to make her feel good . but i prefer on top cause it more fun and wild
goldeneagle
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
14 Oct 10
If she wanted to be on top all the time, I wouldn't complain. I would just enjoy the ride LOL
jagjit273
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
13 Oct 10
No Its Not Selfish For Women,As Men wants To Be On top, to Feel manlihhod and Be Incharge, Most of the Times, and Women Like that very Much. Have a Nice day
luxlyangels
@luxlyangels (1286)
•
14 Oct 10
well for me after like one hour on top moaning a nd groaning i d like to rest for a while so its better if she stays on top for a while ,sometimes it injures especially if shes really not too experienced but then again you can assist her in raising her hips so you wouldn't hate the experience . Its very ok and not selfish if a lady wants to be on top. It can be done in turns if shes guilty of being selfish ok.