Do you think to do well inferior to marry well?

@zhouxi (1756)
China
October 14, 2010 8:28pm CST
In China,many girls think to do well inferior to marry well .they don't want to face to difficult life.what do you think about it?I think it's important to marry a good husband.it's also dangerous to depend on them totally.
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@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
15 Oct 10
No body is perfect and marriage is a gamble. The true colors of the person you marry will only come out later in your marriage life. Count it your blessings if you find a good man with a fat pocket.
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@zhouxi (1756)
• China
15 Oct 10
To some extent it's true.that's not all.we can judge people from many aspects.
@vandana7 (64961)
• India
15 Oct 10
Can I add to that Zandi? "a good man with a fat pocket, and a brain full of wisdom."
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@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
15 Oct 10
Hi vadana, I would definitely not end up with a man who has fat pocket but is not intellectual. The only thing that can inspire me is people with brains.
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@inu1711 (5288)
• Romania
16 Oct 10
There are places in my country where poor girls think the same way. I don't know how it feels to be so poor and hopeless, that you would rather choose to marry a man you don't love only for his money. I founded my life on my powers. I wanted to succeed in life by myself, and I think I did this. I think a husband must be a partner in life, not a person whom you totally depend on.
@zhouxi (1756)
• China
16 Oct 10
I think so.
@vandana7 (64961)
• India
15 Oct 10
Hi zhouxi - how are you doing. :) I think some hardships in life early on make us wiser. So we should face them, come what may. That way, we learn our lessons well, and we are careful in future. Otherwise, we can be duped in later part of our lives, and we would not have comfortable old age.
@zhouxi (1756)
• China
16 Oct 10
we will know many things when we getting older.but some times it's too late.