Have you proposed anyone yet.
By kartiknaiduk
@kartiknaiduk (275)
India
October 18, 2010 4:08am CST
Have you ever been in love, have you proposed someone you love. Many people love and hesitate to propose. It may be due to the fear of rejection, etc. My Question is, if you proposed, how did you propose?
I had proposed a girl 3 years ago. She was my classmates and we were quite good friends, during post graduation. On Sunday, I asked her to accompany me for dinner(i.e. for date.) She didn't knew that I was going to propose her, but she knew there was some girl in class I liked. We had long talk as usual and in between she was trying to know about the girl whom I liked. But I told her I will tell her when it will be the right time. We ordered food, salads,etc. But she was firm about knowing about the girl I liked and she started asking me again, to her bad luck I said the same slogan.
Later when we I took back from the hotel. I stopped before her house came(that is our usual stop point) She slowly asked once again.
I got down from my bike. I went near her and said. " The girl you were asking about is you, It is none other than you whom I liked." I asked her whether you would be my girl. She was just staring at me, she spoke nothing. Silently, she went away without replying.
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11 responses
@srganesh (6340)
• India
18 Oct 10
What was the end of the story? Did she accept your love or not?
For me, I had proposed to a girl, once in my life time. But it didn't get work out. She was a good friend in my college but couldn't have the same love feeling towards me. But still, it is a great experience to be in love. isn't it?
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@kartiknaiduk (275)
• India
18 Oct 10
Ya my case is same as yours. We are still good friends. But today we reside in different cities. It was indeed a good experience.
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@la_chique (1498)
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18 Oct 10
I proposed to my boyfriend this time last yr. He wasnt expecting it at all, and was a bit surprised as we've been together for so long that he thought I wasnt bothered about getting married. He thought it was really romantic though, and he bought me a gorgeous diamond and tanzanite ring very shortly after to make the engagement official :)
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
18 Oct 10
I have not proposed anyone yet because I have no any girlfriends and also until I don’t know any girls well then how can I proposed her. I think first it is must to make friendship with a girl and then after few months you can proposed someone.
@la_chique (1498)
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18 Oct 10
Yes, it does help to know the girl first :)
I'd been with my fella for 7 years before we got engaged.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
22 Oct 10
U propose to a girl who's not even your girlfriend back then? If i were her, i will walk away too. It comes as a surprise to her, and it's shocking. She needs to be respected and she thinks u are playing a game on her. THat's not the kind of love we want from a man.
My bf has not propose to me yet because it's not the right time to do it. We are not ready for marriage and we both know it.
@jmayangcoF (279)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
actually i had been in love so many times,. but honestly only one guy who proposed me , but i am not in the exact age to be engage to someone,.,.,.he proposed me by giving a ring at night time that were having a date on that time,.,.and that place is near at he church at he promise it to god..,.,and honestly and sad to say that i broke up with him.,.,
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
Such a romantic story with a sad ending. I confessed my feelings to my husband at the beach. We belong to the same group of friends and he was one of my bestfriends then. Everybody can see that we started to develop feelings for each other but we both denied it thinking that it might ruin our wonderful friendship. At that time the only friend that I told my feelings about was someone that he's not acquainted with. One night that girl friend of mine sent him a message not to leave me a lone and he should try to talk to me. So we drove to the beach and I told him how I truly feel. He confessed the same thing and we ended up as a couple.
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
18 Oct 10
Hmmm....it is tough, the only thing that I would like to say, these things happen automatically, you can not think and do things like this. If you love someone, you should certainly propose, whether she says yes or no, at least She will remember in her whole life that you loved her....
@Krizz420canada (531)
• Canada
19 Oct 10
Sorry to hear about your story but in my personal opinion that little piece of paper that says your married changes people. I know couples that have been together for fifteen to twenty years and once they actually got married the relationship fell through. So for me I think I'll just steer clear of that question and just go on enjoying things as they are.
@CandyRayne (458)
• United States
18 Oct 10
I have never proposed to anyone but I have been proposed to dozens of times. In fact I recntly got married June 19th, 2010 Here in Beautiful St. Augustine Florda.
@c_grovino_d (74)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
Wow nice question. I doesn't have any proposal yet because i"m still young. but as what I've observe other they just want to proposed because they want to have a happy family with the person they've love more that they're selfs.
