Do guys really want someone to care about them?

Egypt
October 23, 2010 5:42pm CST
Im just asking on a more spiritual level, do guys really want someone who actually cares about them , ready to be there for them through the worst , hold their hand when they need holding. do they really want someone sweet and kind with a huge heart? im asking because ive recently noticed that although im very complex when i care for someone i change completely and its like i dont even care what happens to me as long as they are okay so i thought maybe that would be a point in my favor or do guys dont really want that?
7 responses
• United States
24 Oct 10
I think everyone, even guys, long for someone to hold onto, to be a firm foundation and run to. I enjoy my solitude, but enjoy company as well.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
For me I don't want as long as I have the companion it is okey.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
I think they do.. my bf is sweet when it comes to this.. hehe i mean he always is the strong person but whenever i make him feel that he is loved, that i want time spent with him... he just smiles and i know he feels happy that someone is showing concern for him... =)
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
24 Oct 10
Oh yes!!! That is what every guy wants but first you must understand men. Men are full of male hormones. It makes them think of only one thing. Attractive, flashy women always gets a man's attention so first always give them something to look at. So many times men go for the flash only to discover lust never lasts. Broken hearted they move on. Some go through the same thing over and over. All men have a dream woman in their mind. The closer you are to that; the quicker they go for you. All this information isn't the important thing. One must always look for true love. With true love there will be strong chemistry on both sides.True love has no timetable. Sometimes it won't show up until later in life. Always be open for true love for it tends to show up when you least expect it.
@gi2h_san (162)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 10
of course yes.. when someeone care obout the other one, it's very comfortable because they will feel tjhat they are accepted and they have someone to share something
@hushi22 (4928)
23 Oct 10
i am also like you pal. i make sure they are okay but these people i care so much are also thinking the same so it doesnt end.
@kjones505 (271)
• United States
23 Oct 10
Are you tasking about men in particular? If so, I would say on a general level most of them don't care. They are conditioned by society not to care in order to increase their psychological strength. Women may care more because they are generally more coddled and allowed to be more sensitive which makes them over emotional sometimes.