Introduction - Ur partner / ur friends

@Karunvig (714)
India
October 25, 2010 2:21pm CST
do u really introduce ur frbds n best frnds to ur partner so tht later he or she can b comfortable with the society ur living in... OR u hide thm as u r afraid tht u may lose because of ur frnds naughtyness/mischief or sum bad behavior..
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7 responses
• Mumbai, India
25 Oct 10
Yes I Do have a tendency to hide my partner from some friends Whom I feel can easily impress her and take her away from me :P. I do feel unsecured at times, but I also feel that its better to introduce your partner to your friend circle as its good for your partner and you to feel comfortable and adjusted in your group. Be sure that you introduce your partner to only friends you trust and not all and sundry :P. Its better if you have a very trusty partner, I only feel unsecured if my partner is not trustworthy and can betray me ;), fortunately I never got such partners, I got all both of my partners very trustworthy but circumstances had to have their own way :).
@tammytwo (4304)
• United States
27 Oct 10
It sounds as if you either have some insecurities with yourself or you have had partners and friends that cannot be trusted. I hope you can work through that and will be able to introduce your future partner to your good group of friends.
@mensab (4208)
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
once i love a person, i want that person to belong to where i do belong. i want that person to be part of my world. thus, i introduce her to my friends, families and colleagues. besides, i am proud to have that person in my life. this is if i truly love that person.
@tammytwo (4304)
• United States
27 Oct 10
I agree. When we love someone we want them to become part of our lives in every aspect.
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
I have the same circle of friends with my bf so i don't have to worry of introducing him to my friends. But if it weren't the case, i think i will definitely introduce him to my friends. I trust my friends and my bf to behave well and respect me. No hidden agendas what so ever.
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@hushi22 (4941)
26 Oct 10
i introduce my friends/best friends to my partner because i want him to be accepted and also gain ore friends. he also does it for me.
@tammytwo (4304)
• United States
26 Oct 10
My husband and I have been together for so long that we know most of the others friends. I don't really have any friends that he doesn't know. I have a few acquaintances he doesn't know because I have met them through work. But I know most of the people he works with and we know the friends that we hang out with most.
• United States
26 Oct 10
Yes, I have introduced my friends to my boyfriend and I have introduced my boyfriend to my friends. Some of my friends like my boyfriend and some of them don't. My boyfriend likes some of my friends, and he doesn't like others. Then again, I feel the same way about some of his friends. To me, if you can't introduce your boyfriend to your friends, then there is a big problem because you need to be open with your friends and your partner. The lines of communication need to be open with everyone.
• Portugal
25 Oct 10
if my bf lived near me i would show him to my friend sure^^ is nothing wrong^^ im prouf of my bf and i love him^^ so i would want my friend to see him^^ also my friend is sweet so she wouldnt judge him^^ i dont think i should hide my friend from him^^ i should share with him my mum, my two sisters and my friend^^ for him to know them^^