love after marriage or love b4 marriage, which is better?

according to me love after marriage is the best because it knows the positive &negative of him/her.but before marriaga we knows only positve habits.this love is not permanent

I don't think there is a rigt formula to maintain and sustain love. It could be before or after marriage. It makes no difference. If both love each other truly, they will try to hold on to that love no matter what odds come their way. Even if they are not married yet, they will make the relationship works. Marriage doesn't give any guarnatee that the relatinship will last forever. Sometimes, if love is not good enough, it will eventually be lost.so what is the use of being married? Marriage isn't the thing that binds to people together, it is the love they have for each other that will sustain the relationship...

Love before marriage i would say because then you know each other better and know that you want to be together and not that your rushing into marriage before you do. I think its better to know the person very well before and i don't find it boring knowing my wife very well before we were married.

love should exist both before and after marriage. if you don't already love someone then there is no point in marrying them. and how long do you think a marriage is supposed to last? or love for that matter? what makes you think that if you fall in love before the wedding you.. what, just RUN OUT of love? my husband and I were together nearly ten years before we got married. when you love someone, you don't get bored of them. so if you think that ten years in love, then marriage and we'll get bored of each other, then do you think that people that get married to someone they don't love only have about ten years before they get bored too? I wouldn't even consider marrying someone I didn't love. what would be the point of that?

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Two persons enter marriage because of love. So i believe love first before marriage. It's a vow because of love. So if we are going what's righteous and biblical, love before mariage should be the right one.