What advice would you give her?

It sounds to me like she needs to get her stuff together and get away from this guy, because it seems to me that he is only causing trouble for her, and that he is only holding her down. The best thing she can do is to put some distance between herself and this guy before he takes her down with him...

your friend should have a serious conversation with him. first thing she should change the data of her bank account so he cant have access to it. bcs for what you said he took all her money and spent it without her permission and thats a big disrespect to her. he did many sh*ts and she always was there to help him. so he should at least respect her. so she should change the data of her bank account. second thing is talk with him seriously and tell him that or he finds a job or she will leave him. he needs to find a job to pay his own debts. your friend doesnt have to pay all by herself even more when he hid it from her that they had so many debts. she needs to talk seriously with him and tell how she feels. he needs to do something. if after awhile he doesnt change she should leave him. for sure he will learn with what will happen. but i really wish that he listens to your friend and do something to help her. the best for your friend and for you^^

I would tell your sister to be careful. she could find herself stranded and alone. it might be a good idea for her to have her own money. He doesn't sound like someone to totally depend on.

hello magicalbubbles! is the woman legally married to the man? does she love him and vice-versa? i think if they are legally married, she could not just leave the man. Remember the pledge for better or for worse, in richer or for poorer and other blah, blah vows? they must try to work it out, she must talk to him about their options and what they need to do. If, and only if, he would not still cooperate no matter what she says or do, then that's the time that she can opt to leave him. all options must be exhausted before taking this last recourse. if they're not married, well, if she's tired of it all, she can just walk away and leave him. unless of course if she loves him to the max and would try to do everything she can to right things up. the best thing for you and your sister to do? if she's your friend too, just be around to lend support, moral or if you can afford it, financial help. Interferring with their lives and telling her she must leave him without her asking for your opinions might backfire on you and you would not want that don't you?

Wow too sad for her, however she is married to him so unless her heart is ready to give up there is nothing anyone can tell her that would change her mind. However I would be like you and want to so avidly tell her to leave him too.

File A Divorce. End

I see your friend's sister is in a very precarious situation. It is a situation she can not get easily out of it. I do not think leaving her husband would be the right thing to do. She should not have any children as long as they are in financial trouble because it would only add to their trouble She will have to work it out herself. She must persuade him to find some job. She must find a job for herself to keep the home running. She must also seek some counseling for her husband. I think this might help.

I think she should cut her loses and run before he drags her down with him. If he has emptied their bank accounts without her knowledge then he doesn't deserve her and should have to learn to sink or swim on his own.

MAYBE tHE BEST THING TO DO NOW IS TO LEAVE HIM.lEAVING HIM AND BEING ALONE hE will realize his mistakes and maybe finally changed but this kind of attitude is hard to change.He needs some phyhsocological advices or help in this matter.If she really love the guy better guide him if she cant leave him.

Leave him is the only way,or her all life may suffering.The guy do anything just think about himself,not think about her and their future.A leopard cannot change his spots.Leave him asap.