I get jealous over my friends' status

@beeh13u (1040)
Philippines
November 2, 2010 2:44am CST
I am so annoyed to couples who fight and post it on their FB status. Like, hello!? Be tactful. I lost my boyfriend 3 weeks go and I am hurting, and there they are, quarreling over something nonsense. Get a grip you two! You are lucky enough to have each other and that's something compare to what I am dealing with. Some couples share sweet comments. I just get so jealous over it. I don't have anyone to share with it anymore. It's sad being alone.
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@YoungTay (83)
• United States
2 Nov 10
i feel you cause being alone you sart to feel depressed like you aint got nobody to talk to an it seems like everybody else relationships going good an thats when you start to think like damn man why couldnt my relationship have been like that am i right.?
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@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
I am feeling bitter lately. I get annoyed at those cheezy love comments that I did write before. I always tell myself that all relationships end. Bitter Mode -_-
• United States
2 Nov 10
lol you shouldnt feel like that cause i mean its PROBABLY some relationships that do last maybe you just need to keep lookin things might get better
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@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Yeah. It's still fresh that's why I am down. But I know someday I'll be happy again. Thanks amigo!
• Malaysia
3 Nov 10
stupid head
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@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
No. Stupid Hypothalamus. :)
@lingli_78 (12846)
• Australia
2 Nov 10
i can understand how you feel... and you are so right to say that those people who still have each other are still more lucky compare to being alone... i am so sorry to hear that you lost your boyfriend 3 weeks ago and i know that you are still grieving now... hopefully you can get over this difficult time soon and pull yourself together... good luck... take care and have a nice day...
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@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
Thanks for understanding. I am still grieving but I am more on the moving on side now. I'll just tell myself I am pretty and I am strong. And who needs a man? I am an independent woman! ^_^
@APXOHT (104)
• United States
2 Nov 10
Completely agree, this stuff is private and sometimes you think that they make it just to get attention...
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@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
Yeah. I think they are bored. That's why they just like to create drama. LOL ^_^
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Break-up's in relationships is inevitable. There are lots of factors to look at on how to stay with a good relationship. Having it said, it is very painful and hurting losing someone that you loved, and it takes time for healing. It seems that you are quite envious to some good relationship, I understand how you feel. Take it easy, for now I would suggest to keep yourself busy or pamper yourself, go to spa and take some massage. This way you will surely be more relax and give more time to yourself and be friendly at this point in time.
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@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
I am planning to get my hair done or my nails polished. It's nice treating my self once in a while and being beautiful for my own. I surely need a long vacation from a relationship. :)
• United States
2 Nov 10
Be Jealous is a sick.Don't let you touch by him.Because your heart can become close to love.Think positivelly and do the best choice,the right think.
@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
Yeah. I'll try being thick as a troll. I wont let emotions get me down.:)
@toniganzon (49185)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
You have to think the other way around girl! Think positive and post this on your wall: I'm so free and I'm happy again. Who wants to date with me? If that would happen to me, that is if i were single, I would definitely put something like that. Who knows someone might make a comment and you could end up together. Or you could just have fun and enjoy the comments that were made. In that case you won't be hurting anymore! Cheer up!
@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
Hey, thanks! It made me laugh. I'll post that someday on my wall. :)
@onlywan (182)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Its really sad being alone, always getting envious when you see couples that really love each other especially if the other person who you really like or love is on the opposite end which always happens to me. Every girl I like always has a boyfriend, Maybe I'm looking at the wrong places. I don't know. Sometimes I wish they fight so I will end up with the person I like. I know its bad but what can I do. and besides, my thoughts won't mean a thing and even though that will happen, there is still no assurance that the girl will like me since most of the girls I like are taller and beautiful but I'm not saying i'm ugly, it just that I think that those type of girls like the more handsome type and the taller type.
@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
A lot of young girls are shallow. Sorry to say that. They are still immature. But when you grow up, you realize love is isn't about looks. It goes deeper. I sometimes get lonely if a couple holds hands together. It makes me remember those times with my Ex. What a lonely life.
@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
I know how it feels friend. I feel the same. I think people in FB are just overly open sometimes with their lives that they forget to realize that there are people there who are affected by what they're posting. I feel the same whenever I see a friend or colleague getting married and is posting wedding photos online. I know they're happy and all, but somehow I just yearn that I hope I'd feel the same someday - being happy and content and married to the one who loves me and I love.
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@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
My former classmate got hitched last Saturday. My first reaction was " What? We are still young!" But I realized that in my age, we are allowed to get married. I still can't absorb those kinds of things. I like being in a serious relationship but getting married is not on my list. I will if I have a stable job and enough cash to support a family. But I wont let those get me down. :)
@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
i also find it funny if couples fight on a site like FB. it is not really a respecting thing to do. if you are a person who is in the right mind then shutting up would be better than announcing the whole world with your dirty laundry. i am happy to see lovers exchanging sweet nothings. but i would love to see funny and making me laugh status. my status right now is Christmas in the air, I would like to formally announce that I am already accepting gifts in cash and gift cheques. avoid the holiday rush. SEND IT NOW!!! i made a few friends laugh. har har har
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@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
That's good. At least it's not scandalous. I'll post Christmas greetings at the end of November. But the air surely feels like Christmas. I am so excited of the festivities.
• United States
2 Nov 10
This is quite sad to read and I am sorry you are feeling lonely these days as I certainly can understand. What you need to do maybe is not visit facebook for a few days as clearly it is upsetting you. Try really hard to keep busy and allow yourself sometime to heal. I wish you the best of luck in the future with any future partner and I am sorry you are going through this. Best of luck to you.
@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Thanks for your empathy. Yeah, I guess I should stop opening my Facebook account. I still haven't deleted my Ex in my friend's list. And it's hard to stop myself from prying on his profile. I know I'll be happy soon. :)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 10
yeah, I think this thing is really suck. just avoid them as long as you can, i meant just let the negative people be on their area, and you have your own and build the wall so they're can't build to your wall. be patient and always have positive thoughts :)
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@burrito88 (2779)
• United States
4 Nov 10
I started picking up "friends" in Facebook because of games. I had one girl I picked up for Farmville who either broke up with a boyfriend or he dumped her. Had to endure weeks of her alternating between how happy she was to be single or, more often, how much she hated the guy. Luckily, either I dropped her orshe dropped me as a friend. The I picked up a couple for Mafia Wars. They broke up but the guy kept on sending her messages trying to get back together. Luckily, that stopped after a week or so. It's crazy reading these things from people you don't even know. Don't they ralize they are broadcasting their feelings to the world.
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