Would You Date someone who smoked?

@wolfie34 (26792)
United Kingdom
November 18, 2006 7:02am CST
I would, I am very anti-smoking and frightened of passive smoking. I would never date anyone who smoked. Would you?
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20 responses
@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
2 Jan 07
Life is funny. I've always disliked smokers since I was young & told myself that I will never date a smoker. When I grew up & started dating, all my boyfriends smoke, various degrees of intoxication. Eventually, I got married to someone who smokes heavily. Isn't this ironic? :P
@wolfie34 (26792)
• United Kingdom
2 Jan 07
Very! Thank you for sharing.
@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
2 Dec 06
My dad smoked & I hated smoke so I told myself I would never marry a smoker. Then when I met my husband, he smoked. But he promised to cut down. Now, after 6 years, not only did he not cut down, it got worse & he is a full-time chimney! Sometimes, it's really hard to say. But I still hate smoke & smokers.
@wolfie34 (26792)
• United Kingdom
3 Dec 06
Thank you very much for your indepth response, always appreciated.
@victor78 (1081)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 06
no. I hate smoker. Smoking is really bad. It can cause lung cancer and lots of other desease not only to the smoker but also to the people near the smoker. Recently a report show that more than 75 % AIDS carrier are smoker. Even there are no prove showing that smoke can cause AIDS but i strongly believe that there are connection between smoking and AIDS. One more things is that smoking wasting a lot of mioney. For your own good or for your family, STOP SMOKING if you are a smoker.
@wolfie34 (26792)
• United Kingdom
2 Dec 06
Thank you very much for your response, always appreciated.
@supersach (1523)
• India
18 Nov 06
No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't like to smell her bad breath
@wolfie34 (26792)
• United Kingdom
24 Nov 06
Thank you for your reply.
@ChewySpree (1832)
• United States
18 Nov 06
I'm an ex-smoker and I would be afraid that if I dated someone who smoked, I would be too tempted to restart. So, no, I would not date a smoker because I would prefer to never tempt myself like that.
@wolfie34 (26792)
• United Kingdom
3 Dec 06
Thank you for your reply.
• Pakistan
16 Feb 07
defenitely yes ... women that smoke are a turn on for me ... PEACE !!!
@muye82 (26)
• Nigeria
16 Feb 07
i can date some one that smokes cos i can stand the smoke.and i think its all in the heart
@filchi (291)
• Netherlands
14 Feb 07
Nope, cause i dont smoke and i do not like the smell of it.
14 Feb 07
I'm a anti smoker to buddy! *high five! My father smokes and i hate him for it. (well when he does it because it's only going to take him away from jake and us.) I hate those who blow the smoke into peoples faces or light up near babys. it's sick and i count this as killing yourself which i don't like because i appreciate life. It's a shame. Good discussion! ~Joey
14 Feb 07
I'm anti-smoking too. I wouldn't date a smoker because of health concerns and I can't stand the smell- I couldn't bare to kiss a smoker!
• United States
13 Feb 07
No, I wouldn't. From what I've heard it's like kissing an ash tray. I have friends that smoke and they smoke hard. I smell more like smoke coming from their place then I do when I come from the local casino. I couldn't start dating someone that smokes. Now, if the woman I was with didn't smoke when I started loving her and then she started later in the relationship, that may be different. I would do everything I could to get her to stop and learn why she started.
@rosie_123 (6118)
13 Feb 07
Well, I smoke so I guess the answer is yes! If I loved someone, a habit like that would not stop me loving them. It may not be a nice habit as far as making your clothes or your breath smell, but it is not an evil habit in my opinion. The only thing that would ever stop me dating anyone is if they went hunting, and killed for pleasure, or something of that nature. To me, they would have blood on their hands, and I couldn't bear to let them touch me, but other than that I don't care what they smoke or eat! And yes - my partner does smoke:-))
@ukchriss (2103)
13 Feb 07
I wouldnt, I dont like kissing ash trays!
@weemam (13377)
13 Feb 07
I did and I married him, My dad smoked too , Hubby smoked until he had his first heart attack then my father and hubby and daughter in law all stopped , When they were smoking I could never smell it , Now I just can't stand the smell . I have asthma and the doctor said it was caused by passive smoking xx
@gaganlok (587)
• India
13 Feb 07
ummmm yes if she has got a nice heart..then wheather she drinks will not bother me..
@lsen06 (5000)
• India
13 Feb 07
yes i date . i feel unlucky for this.
@all4ucnc (861)
• United States
13 Feb 07
I'm a non-smoker . . . And actually did date a smoker back before I married, that relationship lasted to the first kiss. Ew! I swore off all smokers after that.
• India
2 Jan 07
yes why not and i like to live life on edge.... i fear to fear
@sharon613 (2323)
• United States
18 Nov 06
It don't bother me. I used to smoke.
• Singapore
18 Nov 06
well, i'm a smoker but my bf is not, we get on wonderfully well, but i have to make sure that i have some mints with me, so that i dont have ashtray mouth. to answer the question, i dont mind dating someone who smoke.