how did you manage your two face friend?

United States
November 29, 2010 6:57pm CST
I have a friend that has two face. He is good when we are together and when he goes to some friends house he against on me when I didn't do anything against him. do you have that kind of friend? Do you think it's better to stay away from him.?
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@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
30 Nov 10
oh dear, he is not your friend just get away slowly, these type of coward and bad people really get pissed and could make even more lies, but one thing: HE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND, friends would never do that i prefer to confront them but i really don't advice it, only if you don't back down and go until the end it's really stressful this way because this kind of people become even more mean when you pick up a fight that's why you can't back down, not once they continued, but again i don't advice cause it's really stressfull
• United States
30 Nov 10
I did confront him and make a fight with my other friend who told me about what he said against me which is not true..!but he denied it. after all, I am still good to him but every time he come in our house I am uncomfortable with him I did asked him what is problem towards me he said: nothing..! I don't know what he is up to!
• Philippines
30 Nov 10
he is not your friend at all.. BEcause in the first place, if he/she considers you as his/her friend, there would not be any confict at all...
• United States
30 Nov 10
you are right..! thanks. maybe he is the type of snake need to close my door.!
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Nov 10
Yes! it is better to stay away from people that has two faces. Because it is like a disease that is hard to cure like AIDS or leukemia. I think they will be like that until they die. I actually have friends that are like that it is really hard to deal with them of course hard to trust them.
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Nov 10
That is better suggestion he must stop coming to your house. Wait is he a gay?
• United States
30 Nov 10
Yeah it is, If he is in our house I felt too prickly and I cannot pretend anymore. But i am trying to talk to him before I will asked him to quit coming to our house!
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@TheAdvocate (2392)
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
Yes! I wanted to throttle her. She was my officemate, and unfortunately for me, she gravitated to me. We ate together, worked side by side and even went home together. I did not know that she was saying bad things about me behind my back. There were a lot of times that I would catch her with a lie, and she would lie some more. As I considered her my friend (at that time), I let it go.But all hell broke loose when she started to train her sights on other people who fought back. Looking back, all my current problems stemmed from my friendship with her, and if I just listened to my instinct, my life would be a lot better now. So in answer to your question, yes, definitely, stay away from such kinds of people. They do not deserve your friendship.
• United States
4 Dec 10
They are similar with each other..yeah our door is already closed on him..we treated good and gave him what he need but we are still bad..I wonder why people have character like this. where did they inherit it? from HITLER?
• United States
30 Nov 10
It is unfortunate as some friends find it easy to be silly at our expense sometimes. I would advise next time you two are alone you tell this friend it has to stop or the friendship has to end. As the true meaning of friendship is one who cares about the other unconditionally.
• United States
30 Nov 10
Yes I do agree with you..I am thinking a way to stop him coming to our house for it's not worth to welcome a snake in our house.!
@tkonlinevn (6400)
• Vietnam
1 Dec 10
If this is true, you should leave this friend. We don't need the friend whom like that in our life.
• United States
4 Dec 10
yeah he won't come to our house anymore because I told my husband about what he is doing to me..! and my husband talk to him man to man!
• China
30 Nov 10
if you r real friends,he shouldn't against on you without any reason. is there any mistakes? try to stand on his situation.
• United States
30 Nov 10
I know what you mean but I don't see any problem on my side because I treated him just like my brother I give what he ask and my door is always open on him anytime..
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
30 Nov 10
What Friend? An acquaintance with 2 faces can scarcely be called a friend! This would only happen once with me and that person would be long gone from my life. Life is too short to be saddled with such friendships.One can find enough problems and difficulties in life without cultivating such associates!
• United States
30 Nov 10
you are right, I have enough problem to add more from him.!