REALITY of LIFE! At times we will be alone! :(

Philippines
December 3, 2010 5:25am CST
I have been living with my friends that I've known years back, we all decided to push our luck, find our destined jobs here in the city, and we've been harmoniously living and it was great, we really became great friends. We've known each other for quite a time, and we've all been so comfortable living with each other, we are brothers in and for life. Then just yesterday, I was confronted with the reality of life, that sooner or later I will be alone. Why? because one of my friends, will be living and well, he feels he needs to find himself somewhere else, there's no issue between any of us, he just feels something's must be done in his life, and he's making the step towards, what he really wants done. I am both happy and sad bout his decision, happy because I would be happy to see him soon, and say, you have what you want now because you left us before. Sad, because he wont be around with us in the house. And I came to think, sooner or later, I will be alone, this guys I am with now, will also decide to go different path from me. Well, I just have to be strong, and accept the reality of life that at times I will be and need to be alone. At least as early as now I am prepared. So what are your views on this lotters? you may share any experience, and views on this. Thanks! :D God bless you!
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3 responses
• India
9 Dec 10
Welcome to mylot chuyins Yes that is reality of life, let me tell you, you came to this earth alone and you will go back to the creator alone, all these attachments are earthy, it is natural to be attached to our parents, family, kids, grandkids, when together, we feel happy, when sad, we feel sad, it is the go of the world, we have to accept it.. Thank you so much for sharing. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . God bless you. Welcome always.
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
Yeah, I could certainly agree with that prof. Thank you for the welcome too. God bless you prof! Have a happy life! :D
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
7 Dec 10
This is just one of the changes in your life that you will go through as the years pass by, but you really shouldn't think of it as an ending, but instead as a new beginning in your life. What I mean is that though I know you are sad that your friend is moving in a different direction in his life, you should still value the relationship that you've developed with him. In addition to that, there will come a time when you are ready to move on as well and when that happens you will leave others behind you that will be sad as well.
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
Thank you for that mind opening response my friend! :D God bless you! Have a happy life! :D
@zhpshql (695)
• China
3 Dec 10
Hi,chuyins123.I'm Frank...Yeah,I can understand you...You know ,people meet,then apart...From the day you met someone,it means there will be someday for you to say bye to each other...There in no need to be sad with it...Just say good luck to your friends and then move on...We ,everyone of us ,have the life of ourown..God bless you.^^
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
thanks for that mate. it's quite comforting to know someone shared my thoughts and sentiments. God bless you mate! Have a happy life! :D