What is your reaction if someone assumes that you stupid?

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"Stupid" is a word we often hear or say. What is stupid? Is there really people that stupid? Did you ever say "stupid" by others or even just someone attach the label "stupid" to others. Whenever the words "Stupid" was spoken? Is it true that the words "stupid" unspoken when someone can not do anything as expected? My question is, when someone can not do something like hope, if we ever find out why he could not do that? Lest he could not do that because he did not know how. Lest he could not do that because he did not have the confidence to do it. If he is given the knowledge, skills and motivation to do it, chances are he will be able to perform as expected. If after being given the knowledge, skills and motivation, it turns out he still can not do something in line with expectations, whether now we can give the label "stupid" to that person? To answer this, I want to ask again, what we've tried various ways to incorporate the knowledge, skills and motivation to that person? Did you ever read the story of Helen Keller? A blind girl but have extraordinary capabilities. And when Helen was a kid, almost everyone pessimistic about the future of Helen. But because his teacher is Mrs. effort. Sullivan tireless trying different ways to teach Helen to read, then be like a remembered Helen today. Had Mrs. Sullivan stopped trying different ways to teach Helen to read, then Helen would only be a blind girl who "Stupid". From this thought, it can be said that the "Stupid" is the bad gift that we give to someone because we are no longer willing to try to help him. Do we ever realize that giving the label "stupid" would hurt the image of someone who will make his life becomes even more difficult. Do we ever realize that giving the label "stupid" will kill a person slowly mental. Now we turn to business. How do you view your employees or subordinates? Have you ever been angry and threw the words "stupid" to one's self? Whether by giving the word "stupid" will you help him to better work? What you really want is for it to work properly, then why do we have to hurt the image of himself that in fact will actually make him worse in the works. This discussion just about the word "stupid", but in this life how many words we use to shoot one's self-image, making him become mentally paralyzed. Negative words such as "You are a weak, incompetent you work, you lazy people, you people who are always fighting, and so on.", Which go so much in a person can make a person do not work as expected. If we want them to change, we need to fix back their self-image. Removing all their mental shackles, so they feel the freedom and to work optimally.