What thing we should be in mind when we make friendship?
By khanzee
@khanzee (123)
Pakistan
December 8, 2010 8:38pm CST
Most of people and lovers have complain, we have been left by some one,, our friends left and became arrogant etc...
I was thinking whey it happens? because we have test and check person, does he qualify for friendship or not? Is he that we could share our secret information or not? When those friend left, they do blackmail, and pressurize their former friend which could be more dangerous if we don't testify or check person.
7 responses
@hushi22 (4928)
•
9 Dec 10
in my case i make friends because i love to touch a person's life and be touched, too. something that makes me connect deeply to someone i know is different among others.
that is right. one time i attended a mass and a priest said, "your best enemy is the person closest to you."
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Dec 10
hi what things you mean, like honesty. liking, sharing and caring,
liking the same things , sharing the s ame values, also to have a best friend you must be her or his best friend, be there always for your
fri end and your friend will be there always for yoou. I and my best friend have been friends really close friends for twenty some years as we met through our sons who are also friends, My son and Mike David and Michael Rivers hav e been the trio for many years and Nelda and I are the pair for many years.I just got back from the bank where she took me after work so I could deposit some money.She does this for me out of friendship.we both used to live in tustin and she s till does so she stops here to pick me up and take me to the bank or to riteaide for some quick shopping. She has been such a help to me, and I have tried to reapy her in some ways and am always open to let her cry on my shouulder or rant about work. I am so hoping her son will get another job soon so Nelda can afford to retire . she is 9 years youonger and I am 84 so she is now 75 and really would love to be able to retire but feels she cannot afford to do so y et until Michael is agin working. like my soln he was laid off his job woreking on movie trailors in burbank,politics lost him his job so hoping he can now get into one of the hollywood studios.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
The first thing comes in my mind when we talk about friends is like. We cannot be a friend by any body if we don't like the person we wanted to be friend. On the first place it was too hard to trust anyone all out or hundred percent that we will tell all the problems we had. Trust may build and need time. Why others have breakups? well because there are expectations they made to themselves that both of them are wanted to see. Well friends and a true friends are hard to find this days... But we can always give a try....
@sweetmary86 (822)
• Philippines
19 Dec 10
i like making friends with people whom im comfortable with and who is true to themselves and to me. i can be myself and i dont need to pretend when im with them. i hate traitors and users. i also hate bi-polars hahaha!
@smashraful (129)
• Bangladesh
9 Dec 10
I always think about that when I make a friendship he/she must have/has a helpful mind to each other in good time of bad time.
@joystick (1675)
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12 Dec 10
I think that there are alot of people that tend to get in too deep with people and make them their friend, before they get to know them properly.I feel like it is a shame that there are people that tell people that they hardly know all the things that they should have kept secret, as some people tend to gossip.I tend to listen to people so that i get to find out if they are a person that will gossip or back stab before i get to involved with them.
