who is the first one to apologize?

China
December 12, 2010 6:57pm CST
Evey pair of loves has quarrels,it is unavoidble,but I think which side apologizes fist is an issue.I think most of time boys should apologize fist or break the currently bad relationship forwardly,they must learn to make their girls laugh,girls is easy to be hurt in affection and they are fragile in heart,sometimes they should keep their restraint!! what is your opinion and who usually apologize fist in your relationship?
5 responses
@pringu (151)
• India
7 Feb 11
Fight occurs in relationships that are so intimate and affectionate. It could be also expressed as a sign of deep love. In my opinion, guys are the ones who should try and end the quarrell most of the times since girls always likes their lovers giving up. But then apologizing doesn't mean giving up. Boys are so smart enough to understand the fact that, if they don't give up girls could easily chew up their ears and get on their nerves. And i agree to to you that, guys should always try to keep their partner happy and cheering.
• China
15 Feb 12
sorry for replying you so late!now i have married,i understand deeper about the relationship between couples,in fact,everyone should study to understand each other during quarrell,there is no absolutly right or wrong between coupels!But if the guy compromis fist,that be good for the quarrell passing.
@buggles64 (2715)
• United States
15 Dec 10
I think it would be equal providing who needs to apologize. Usually the person that apologizes is the person that upset the balance...Say, you and your spouse have a dinner date. Your spouse is running late at work, and you've been sitting at the restaurant waiting for him/her. The spouse that is late should be the one to apologize. Relationships are based on give and take...from both parties.
• China
10 Jan 11
A good and wisdom attitude,it is so bad for a relationship that no one wants to solve problems,if loving is there,who apologizes first has no business!!!
@bird123 (10346)
• United States
13 Dec 10
Shouldn't relationships be 50-50???? I will give my 50 percent in everything. She should as well. I will not take more than 50 percent. I would encourage her to give 50 percent if she is not. I don't think it really matters who says I'm sorry first. It is a good idea to have it all settled by the end of the day.
• China
13 Dec 10
The same opinion as me,if I have quarrel with my lover,I don't keep the problem more than one day,it is not good for our relationship,your 50-50 attitude sounds nice,but your girl may hate it,haha!thanks for your caring,blessing you!
@jepoi17 (119)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
. . there no need to know who lend ask fro apology what matter most is that you both realized that you did wrong and even it is not your fault you have to ask apology and give your forgiveness.
• China
13 Dec 10
That's a perfect ambience for a relationship,and that every pair of lover is pursuing,but the process for getting harmony is so tough,it needs guys' more hard work,I think!
@nicregi (1936)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 10
In my opinion, guys should always try to get the mood back and cool down everything. Yes, regardless of whose fault it was, either one must make it up soon. I always believe guys must be more 'open-heart' and try to get it fixed asap! However, this does not mean that only one side must do the job. Now and then, both parties must know when to apologize and when to start it :)
• China
13 Dec 10
Yes,affection is a two-side thing,after a fight,apologizing and accusing are not enough,everyone should find their own problems,that's vital for a long relitionship!