Thanks Mylot - From An Ordinary Online Friends To A True to Life Friends

mylot friends - my true to life friends in mylot
Philippines
December 22, 2010 6:38am CST
This site has brought a lot of changes in our life.i know many of you will agree with me.we have met members from different walks of life with different races and cultures.we are all strangers to one another.we do not have an idea on the life of every member here.but we do share our opinions,ideas and advices when a member post a discussion and needing an advice.I'm glad that i found this site three years ago.i did not only met online friends but met true friends in real life.Through this site,we had a lot of bondings,we just send personal message to one another if we want to meet.And even though we just knew each other for short period time,all of us are very happy and satisfied during the bonding. What about you?do you have friends in real life that you've met through this site?do you also have bonding moments?
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12 responses
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
Hello Rberon, I know the feelings of finding true friends on a website, from being strangers to being a true and good friends, this case is rare actually like what i have said to you before some of them was a stranger to me until i found another family on them but unfortunately some of them also become once again a stranger :(. But i am happy now becoz even some of them did not make it at least i found another friends here in Mylot and i am glad you are one of them. :). Always stay cool.
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
you are right.it is really rare.out of 10 sites that you belong,one to two sites you will get real friends in true to life.the remaining sites will just retain as your friends online.i'm glad that i've met or i was able to form circle of friends here.and i am looking forward to meet other members in person and i think that will happen soon,maybe on our second conference.happy mylotting!
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• Philippines
22 Dec 10
Hello Catch, I can't believe chat all night on that I was almost asleep that night but I had to stay awake since I forgot to set the alarm on my phone for my mom since she's attending Misa de Gallo. Well, they have their paths to take and probably some people really doesn't want to get that too close. There are people who really prefer to be anonymous since they reveal secrets only in mylot. And not their identity.
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• Philippines
22 Dec 10
@ LK25 actually i sleep around 3 am i think and since it's my rest day all i do is to sleep and every time i wake up i found myself checking mylot hahaah!. Hope your mom did not miss the mass, I am pertaining to those people i met who allowed themselves to be part of my life but later on they just vanish without any explanation why? well i already accept it. And you just reveal your secret last night hahaha!that you are LetranKnight25 :P.
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
Hello Rberon, Yeah, I've still been talking to some of our friends that we met up in Mall of Asia. Some really had their lives going again but that's fine at least I have met them. Some users, I have known in facebook, didn't realize how pretty they are, but too damn far away. But you know, if they don't want to reveal their true identity and doesn't want to come, let's just respect them. Anonymous is still practice here and these people tend to keep it that way. Trouble for me is, any secret I reveal, people would know me directly now. Merry Christmas Rberon.
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• Philippines
22 Dec 10
i never loss connection with the people that i've met in mall of asia.if i really have some time,i send them personal message saying "hi" or hello".and i am looking forward to have more friends here in the site.i know another new set of friends will be added on my phonebook,facebook and friendster account after we held the second conference next year.happy mylotting.merry christmas too.
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@Lance26 (957)
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
Never had yet but I would love to meet other members of this site and eventually ends up as friends or something romantic. If I'm not mistaken the friendship you are referring to was started last 2 weeks at the gathering?
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
Hello Lance, You should join us in coming 2nd Conference early next year :),Rberon is referring us you are right it was about the gathering 2 weeks ago. :) Good morning!
@Lance26 (957)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
Hi bhabycatch013, I'll look to it! If not for our HS reunion I would have joined you. Anyway there's always a next time. See you!
• Kenya
22 Dec 10
indeed, mylot is a good website.
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@meuji100 (198)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
It's good to have friends in an online site. It's nice that you had friends here in myLot. Finding a real friend in a site is hard. I have never met a friend in an online site.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
i think it depends on the persons.. i had an online frends, even i never see them, but i can ask them if i need their aid they do the same things to me...
@Hatley (159442)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Dec 10
hi rberon I have so many mylot friends here but only met one Lorie Olsen and That was so good, I love her to pieces and was so thrilled she came to see me.As you know I live here in GoldCrest and I a m open to visits from any of you as it would really make my day. You and all the others Pikey top and the Lamb you would all be so welcome.I am partly handicapped physically so cannot go far but welcome anyone who wants to stip if they are ever in s ou thern California. Lori and I really did vbond as she is so lovely and down to earth. I am so lucky to have so many great mylot friends and they have been so kind to me too.
@Hatley (159442)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Dec 10
oh my God the rain is just pelting us here right this minute, it is literally banging on the building and so noisy its almost scary., for a moment I thought the handyman was reaming out a next door toilet then I realized no its rain just pounding down on the roof.Rebron want some extra rain, we have more than we need loll soon be floating if it does n not stop.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
this is our problems especially in indonesia we had many island...every indonesian here is separated from an island.. it`s too impossible for us to make gathering.. but some of them, i collect their number... i think some of them too become a good frends for mw and i can ask their share when iam confusing i think this is a gteat place and time to say thanks too for mylot...
@meenneixz (668)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
Hi, I never meet someone here who become a friend in real life. How I wish to find some people here who are from my place, by the way Im from Philippines, cebu to be specific, I dont know if there are people from here who knows this site or a member already. I was trying to post this site before in my facebook wall but to my surprise no one is interested.hahaha...
@zed_k4 (17633)
• Singapore
23 Dec 10
Awesomely true. The years I've been here , I've seen a more stronger bond of friendships made and new found friends too. We are a big , large family here and all discussions , be it sad , happy or anything else is always embraced by all. We get through the fights and tears , the hardships and easy moments in life , all with myLot friends. Same awesome as real friends outside. Because everyone is just so sincere. That's my take on this. To all my special friends , you know who you are.
@apples99 (6564)
• United States
22 Dec 10
Yeah I've really enjoy mylot I've been a member for long time now, and I have to agree that mylot is a great site and learned a lot over the years and its been a lot of fun chatting and posting with everyone, people here have been so helpful and friendly I plan to remain a member for years to come that is if mylot will have me haha.
• United States
22 Dec 10
I have found much more than anyone could have ever told me on mylot. I came here all screwed up and on all kinds of meds. I had come from the mental ward yet again for suiside and depression. I came here from a search looking for help with my issues. I found mylot and started posting about my life. I have been here five years and trust me. You should know me very well by now. I held nothing back as i did not know anyone. No one could judge mad and make me feel shamed. Over all I was an open book. I found thrapy and stopped going to the office for it. I found some very nice people on this site. But,over all I found myself. I am a better mother from all the help I get from the great parents here. I learned to be a better listener in life to everyone. I learned to share what makes me feel bad and let it go. I found a very special friend that I know I could not see my life without. Thanks mylot friends happy holiday's .
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
hello rberon, Having friends online is no difference with true/real friends in person. Sometimes online friends becomes different once you treated them purely virtual friends. But if you treated them as real ones,like talking to a friend in person,it could be possible that you are talking to an online friend like talking that person face to face. I have a virtual friend for 4 years now,and haven't met him in person though the possibility of meeting him is not impossible since he always comes home here in our country every year. He is one of my long online friend. He is not just an ordinary friend,but also stand as my father,a shoulder to cry on. He was there during my bad days,during the days when i find no one to talk with. He even becomes a grandfather to my kids,giving them advices during those times of struggling of moving on from a shattered dreams of broken heart. He never let me down when i need him,he calls me not to mention the money he spends with the call. He was a friend,a buddy,a brother and father rolled into one. And he's kind of old in real age...he is now 62 years old. Have a great day buddy... Happy Holiday