I've learned that LOVE is like a game that children Play...

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
December 30, 2010 10:16pm CST
I am not referring to all kind of love (family,parents,friends and loved ones) I am referring in particular ...specifically a man-woman relationship (husband/wife maybe) Happily married couples -congrats then. For unfortunate ones,-maybe you can relate. For mistress/live-in partners - can surely understand. I tried to open door,for love to come my way. I don't know if LOVE is not mine to hug that someone. I know i loved him,and he maybe loved me as well. More than 3 years,i shared everyday of my life with him (online,i never met him in person yet) Until one day,i realized where this kind of love will lead us through? He has plans,promises (?) but i am tired of waiting,(am i too demanding?) I finally broke up with him,(but he never accepted that till now,he still calling me as if nothing wrong) It hurts of course,but then i've learned again...i am tired of loving. Then someone comes my way,unexpectedly...promising love (okay,granted) I want to laugh,here someone is offering a love (again)...and proven something,to think that i've only known him for months,but he was able to prove his sincerity (ugh ugh) will i play with it?...what will happen if i will try? (d*mn!) Well... what is love for you? [b]LOVE- IS LIKE A THREAD...THAT KEEPS UNRAVELLING BUT THEN...IT BRING US BACK TOGETHER IN THE END [/b] 12-30-10 (year end topic)
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shibham
@shibham (16977)
• India
1 Jan 11
Hi didi... Happy new year wishes to you. Well, that was the reason where i was saying you that you have hidden something or you have life which is totally unknown to me. ( if you wish to start the novel then i need all data... but this one was unknown to me, Here, you have said that YOu have not met him in person then what about your daughter? Is he your second love. I am still confused. You have not ever said about your husband and i personally wrote to you regarding this issue... but you ignored. Well, now i just want to know where is her father? i mean your daughter? Please inform me if there is no problem... I shall add my views after it as i have lots to add. Great time.
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theSids
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
1 Jan 11
Happy New Year Shibham
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
hello dear bhai, I never ignored you (grrrrr) i don't know why i can't reach your email that time. Anyway, i need time to give you all the details. I wish we can talk through chat... my chat messenger is same with my yahoo email,just send me request so i can add you (i wish to talk all the details through chat so that you can asks all the questions that you needed ) I was married,and have 3 kids...then separated....and the online love is just a recent story...so much to tell dear bhai =) HAPPY NEW YEAR
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
@thesids, HAPPY NEW YEAR
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
hello jaiho, You can always give someone a chance especially if he exert more effort, its time to give yourself a chance to love and beloved again :-). He is still communicating you becoz he is so insensitive regarding your feelings maybe he thinks a call will makes your heart melt and change your mind to be with him again (i mean your internet love affair), most promises are bound to be broken, he is still planning for 3 years?*smug*. Just give him a chance maybe this time you can truly find the love of your life :) -Love is taking risk and get hurt by it- happy new year
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
Honey, I know you are always there to support and understands me. You knew me very well,i don't have anything to hide from you. And i am sure you will always understand me no matter what. Yes LOVE is taking risk...then why you are not taking the risks huh? love you muahhhhzzz
bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
hehehe!Of course i am just here besides it's your choice can't do anything about it just hate to see you crying :). I am going to take a risk any time soon hahahh love you more!
bird123
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
1 Jan 11
So you have loved in the past and lost. It must hurt because you were becoming too close to one who was not your true love. The warning is now clear. We all have the power to choose what we deem important in life. Will you value hurt over happiness??? If you refuse to be open for love, isn't this what you will be doing???? There is one thing you must realize. True love will be much better than the wonderful love you thought you had in the past. Know that few things worthwhile in life come easy. First, we must be willing to LIVE!!!!
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
hello bird, When we learn to love,we must also accept the lost. Yes,i have loved and lost,which is better than not to have loved at all (as the saying goes) I never regretted loving and losing. Pain is part of love...it's a matter of acceptance. But sometimes heart get tired of loving (too much pain) Still i am not closing any possibilities of falling in love again,i am still hoping to met the true love that i am looking for. LOve will come my way...i will come flying back to me thanks for your response and HAPPY NEW YEAR
Professor2010
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
3 Jan 11
I can feel the pain you are getting, i told you i know many from Philippines who have this kind of lovers in net and who have been cheated, some are happy only, read my PM and reply.. Thank you so much for sharing. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . Cheers have a lucky day ahead. God bless you.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
hello dada, I don't think he cheated me. He is always with me though,i am too demanding for proof. He never promised something that he can not afford to do so. The only things is...i am asking him to much (maybe my fault) Besides,like i wrote here...it's been 3 years. And 3 years is enough to feel that he ever left me,and until now he never left me either. He is still there,calling me thru phone and insisting that the right time will come (i hope so) thanks for your response dada
gengeni
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 11
Love is something pure, white, sincere and pure that arise without any coercion or there is something artificial, I personally think that love can make that person can be motivated to make changes that better than before he knew that love. Love is something that is sacred and we must not desecrate the holy love with our selfishness made us just want a delicious and unpleasant for you. UNDERSTANDING required to maintain the love!
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
hello gen, I also think that maybe i am demanding too much. I never see the effort that he exerted to make me feel his love. I don't know ...really i know i got some fault. But,i feel tired of understanding.... thanks for your response and have a good day always
Wjsucsess
@Wjsucsess (45)
• China
31 Dec 10
Yes,love needs to have a single children's heart,as the growth of the age,love also gradually become indifferent,finally,love becomes affection.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
hello Wjsucsess, Truly love needs affection. Love is a mysterious feeling,only people who knows how it is to be in love,and how love hurts can fully understand that LOVE is not all about happiness. Thanks for your response and HAPPY NEW YEAR
theSids
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
31 Dec 10
Hi Jaiho, These notes on love were great and touching. Cannot help but re-read them and I understand them differently each time I do read these lines. Love to me is Life and Friendship where I expect nothing except giving and gaining from this giving. It is something that helps me keep going, clinging on to being the child and living innocence. HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011 theSids. Note: This has been one of the best discussions to start my days.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
hello friend, HAPPY NEW YEAR LOVE is innocent, Love doesn't know any religion, No color,No race,No status. LOVE doesn't know any boundaries at all. LOVE doesn't know any language,and LOVE is the greatest language -it doesn't need a single word to express. Thanks for your response and have a great day each day of this year