Adopted Child....

@magenn (78)
January 1, 2011 5:23pm CST
Many are adopted child and many couples and individuals has adopted child. If you have an adopted child are you going to reveal to them that they are only your adopted child? or you will hide it to her/him? For me NO I will not hide I will really tell her/him that she/he is my adopted child and then I will tell the truth why.Anyway even they are only adopted child if they really feel the real love that you gave to her/him they will not trade you to anything else or somebody else. How about you if you have adopted child what will you do? you will tell her/him that they are your adopted child or not?
3 responses
14 Jan 11
it is good to adopt a child becAuse theydont have a parents. Most children grow up in foster home or orphanages and never have the love of mother and father, and when you adopt a child you can give then the love that they need.
@magenn (78)
15 Jan 11
Yes if we adopt child we must give love same as your true kid though they are only adoptive child and we should treat her/him as true child that really comes from our womb though you will tell later on that you only adopt him/jher.
@Angelwriter (1956)
• United States
2 Jan 11
If I adopted a child, yes I would tell them. But, I wouldn't think of them as "only" adopted. They would be my child, as much as if I gave birth to them myself. I would tell them the full story of how I came to adopt them, and then stress that there's difference in my feelings for them.
@magenn (78)
2 Jan 11
Yes I agree with you. I have to tell the truth why I adopted him/her.Its not advantageous if we will not tell the the truth.There are some cases that adopted child are very loving than to the real kid.They should be treated like real kid.
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
Like you if I had an adopted child I would let him/her know that she/he is adopted. As long as he can understand already what adopted really means it would be easier to explain it to them. I wouldn't hide it from them and if they want to look for their real parents I wouldn't stop them from doing so. They will eventually find out sooner or later so why not tell them already rather than them hearing about it from somebody else. It's true that if you raised them well they wouldn't leave you and that would be where you should hang on.
@magenn (78)
2 Jan 11
Yes im sure we will be in trouble someday if they are already grown and they found out that they are already adopted and you dont tell them. Theres so many cases that that they are in trouble coz they found out that they are adopted from others.