Just Because

United States
January 4, 2011 12:31pm CST
Every time I ask my husband "Do you Love me?" He says why want do you want? Just because I ask this question he assumes that I want something and sometimes I do but sometimes I don't it is only a question, Does it mean I want something just because I ask this question? Does this happen to you?
6 responses
@thesids (22357)
• Bhubaneswar, India
5 Jan 11
Hi jahernandezrivas That happens the other way in my life. Every time I say these words to my wife, she asks what do I want? It is I believe more out of our lifestyle where we always find ourselves finding out ways to have some more. And we start believing everyone around wants anything out. On the lighter side: I do want a lot of things right now... Cheers, theSids.
• United States
5 Jan 11
L.O.L. I do want a lot of things too And usually I do want something when i ask him if he loves me that's why he always asks me why what do you want? But it is not all the time that I do want something just most of the time.
• United States
5 Jan 11
I have not experienced this but wonder if he is saying this simply because he is not use to many in his life saying they love him. Or simply a habit that he has developed and does not realize he is doing it. So maybe next time he does say what do you want, then ask him why he has to ask that, can't a girl love him without a hidden intention.
@thesids (22357)
• Bhubaneswar, India
5 Jan 11
And I have a different story here with me... My wife keeps asking what do I need
• United States
4 Jan 11
My hubby won't ask what I want... but what do I want to ask him aside from it. You know something that's bugging me that I would like him to explain.
• United States
5 Jan 11
I agree and I know what you mean Have a nice day!
@Lore2009 (7388)
• United States
4 Jan 11
I've heard of people saying "I love you" and the other goes, what do you want, ahah!
• United States
5 Jan 11
L.O.L. Yes it happens to me all the time and usually after he asks me what I want he starts laughing!!
@swissheart (6486)
• Romania
4 Jan 11
I guess he got used to you asking him for somtihing most of the times you ask him that question. anyway I thinks that fact are more important than words. cheers
• United States
5 Jan 11
I do agree! Have a nice day!!
• United States
4 Jan 11
My husband tells me that he loves me a lot. But every so often I will ask him just because I like to hear it. When I ask him he does say "Yes, I do love you". So I can not say that I experience what you are. I assume that he thinks you want something because (as you stated) you sometimes do. If the question is asked without you ever wanting something that he would have no reason to think you want something. Hope that makes sense.
• United States
5 Jan 11
Yes you are making sense and you are right most of the time when I ask him that I usually do want something maybe because that day I was too tired or not feeling well and really wanted him to get something for me. L.O.L. have a nice day!!