Why are they trying to contain what they claim to love.

Eyes of the beholder - Beauty is not character
Guyana
January 6, 2011 7:15am CST
I am a bit ot a free spirit. At thirty one I am still not married because the minute I meet a guy whom I like he begins to try to change me. The begin to try to make me play down or keep private all the things they claim to like. I love getting about, having a good time (this usually mean dancing and having some group activity with my pals), being comfortable with me, and they try to change that. The try to lock up what they claim to like. I am open and I like that. Ahhhhh! i will not be contained. Are these guys for real? I have been proposed to about 10 times but I throw them back just so quickly. I will not lock me away!
1 response
@Galena (9123)
6 Jan 11
if they want you to change your personality then they don't actually love you. you're right not to settle for someone that tries to change you
• Guyana
6 Jan 11
Couldn't agree more. Thanks.