MYLOT an Answer To A Lonely Heart and Depressed People!

Philippines
January 12, 2011 7:16am CST
I have been in the site for the past three years.Every time that i am sad, i just log in to the site.I just don't know, every time I'm here,I'm always inspired to write.Even though I am so tire,discussions and posts here makes me smile.There are times that I am depress,but people here help me to carry on.This site is totally different.I can say this site is better than facebook. In Facebook, you get to chat with your friends but you don't get best advices whenever you have a problem.I hope that this site will stay longer in the internet world. What about you?What is your opinion?Do you think mylot is an answer to a lonely heart?if yes,why?if not,why?
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24 responses
@neildc (17254)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
12 Jan 11
i do not have a lonely heart but i come here often when i feel sad.
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• Philippines
12 Jan 11
yes,you are right.this is a site that will always make you smile.this site is an inspiration to me.eventhough i am not a good writer and not so good in english,this site has taught me how to compose sentences.i hope this site will last longer in the internet world.
@neildc (17254)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
12 Jan 11
besides, what made me more stuck with mylot is not earnings, but the friendship. and with zayzay's successful operation, i owe that to my mylot friends, for the support, financially and morally and spiritually...
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• Philippines
12 Jan 11
we have the same idea.as what i've mentioned in my discussion,my initial target or goal here is to earn money,but as time goes by,it suddenly change to love of site and make friends here and in real life.with your situation,you can probably say that this site is a gift for you.happy mylotting!
@abj163 (1038)
• India
12 Jan 11
i am not lonely or depressed......but i fill good to write here...because there are some things in everyones life that he or she cant say to anyone...but he or she can write it here easily.... this is a site where you can release your thoughts which are stuck in your mind...... have a nice day...
1 person likes this
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
just like you, i also felt good every time i am writing here,especially if i am giving advice to one member.and my happiness is being doubled, if he/she gets to appreaciate your response.members of the site are very kind and very approachable.i never had a lonely momennt in the site.i hope the site continue to grow and to stay in the internet world for a long time,so let us all support the site.happy mylotting!
@abj163 (1038)
• India
12 Jan 11
it feels nice when you help someone....and if some one is giving you money for helping someone or for giving advice to someone then its damn good....thats why i am here because i gets money here to help someone....
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• Philippines
12 Jan 11
wow, i meet another good samaritan here.we have a lot of members here who is helping other members.i know them personally.i can say that you are one of the "angels" of mylot.i hope i can also share my earnings here. but this time, i'm really sorry but i have to keep it to help my family.i want also be an angel to my mother.i want to provide all her needs in life.the feeling is totally different when you were able to help your family or other people.happy mylotting!!
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
If comparison to other site yes here in mylot you receive and get some advices from other friends, even suggestion. Actually yes a good medicine here chat and discussion something with others... see you around
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
You are right,mylot can be a medicine to everyone.when i am sad,i just log in to the site and my loneliness is already answered.reading quality discussions here makes you feel so relax.
@Lance26 (957)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
For how many times I've told about the good things about mylot, I lost count already but am not tired to tell it again and again. This site isn't just all about money, okay, it's the reason why I joined here in the first place but as time goes by and being an active member I found out that mylot is beyond making money. It is about friendship, learning different cultures, sharing experiences to others, enhancing our communication skills and so on. Whenever sadness hits me I just search interesting topics to inspire and enlighten my day. Members are very supportive, they will cheer you up and give good advices when you are down and problematic.
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• Philippines
12 Jan 11
I've been here for three years,and just like you i am also not getting tired of expressing myself on how lucky i am that i became pary of this site.we have of the same target when i started in the site and it suddenly change when i met true people in the site.what happen is just every time we discuss,it turns to an ordinary conversation to a friend.we don't notice that by doing that we already earned. most of the topic here are quality ones.it also enlightens my day every time i read it and especially if i was able to give my point of view in the topic.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting!
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
I agree that social sites and forums are outlets that people make to express themselves. It helps a person to release their emotional stress and other personal thoughts which is beneficial also. There are a lot of ways to breathe out frustrations, sadness and happiness and that is through social network sites and forum sites. It is much better to do this since you can get other people to communicate with you and tells you suggestions about certain problems in life.
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• Philippines
12 Jan 11
there are lots of social networking sites in the internet world,but i found mylot a very interesting site other than social networking sites.not because i am earning money here.it is all because i am enjoying to post and share my opinions and ideas on the different topics in the site.i also get to meet people from different walks of life. i was able to express my frustations,my happiness and my success in this site.it also help me to develop my writing skills.i really love this site.
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
Maybe yes . Since you can write about almost anything here, you can also post your problems and even ask for other people's opinion. I have read some posts (I think I also started a post) about real life situations, problems most of the time, and people with different views in life would give their different views about the topic. When you are sad and you made other people know about it through a post, you can find people who can relate to the same situation and can at least make you feel better through their advises. Posting and replying to threads would also divert your attention to other stuff making you forget your current worries.
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• Philippines
12 Jan 11
In "life" category, you will find the real life situations/stories and you will really get a very sincere advice and response from other members.this will lead you to forget your problem for a while.it will also make you smile because there are some members who has the same situation.there are some members who will motivate you and will even send you personal message,to extend his/her gratitude.you will not see all of these things in other sites. mylot really rocks.so we should do our best so this site will last for a long time in the internet world.let's continue to post quality discussions.
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
im new here and been a member only for just over a week. but i have to say, so far, this is my most visited site. i have forgotten all about facebook and twitter. i agree with you. i do enjoy reading stories and participating in discussions here. it's healthy. i learn a lot from other people. and it makes me happy. myLot is really awesome. it links the world thru healthy and helpful discussions.
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• Philippines
12 Jan 11
Welcome to Mylot Community I am really happy to hear from you that you are enjoying the site.You are right,when you are already a member of mylot, you will forget about Facebook and Twitter.You will not just earn here but you also get real friends online, and even get a chance to meet them in real life.you won't believe me, but i was able to host the first meet up of Filipino mylot members in our country.it was held last december 10,2010.we are all strangers to one another during the meet up but the event was still successful.we get to bond to one another and our contacts become strong.actually, i am organizing the second meet up this february.i hope this will be successful again.big preparation is needed because this time,it will include video conferencing.video conference are for those members who can't attend the event. just approach us if you do have problem or if there are things that makes you confuse.you can also check the mylot guidelines.it will help you a lot.happy mylotting!!
@kylanie (1205)
• United States
28 Feb 11
I do for different reasons like you said I talk to my friends on facebook but those are people that has known me for a few years or longer and it helps sometimes but here people only know you by what you type and what you have to say so here i dont have to worry about what people think of me that knows me in ways that other people dont i can be ohnest and people dont judge me and that helps out alot.
@eurekafemme (5881)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
Hello, Rberon. Do I need to make further explanation or share more of my personal experience here than I already did? From the very beginning this site has been my sanctuary whenever I feel sad, scared, confused or even angry. It is not something that I do in facebook. Heck, I don't even share that much in facebook than I do in Mylot. It must be the feeling of freedom to express myself here without getting judged negatively. People here are trying to understand and help rather than of feeling you more guilty about something or putting the blame on you. In this site, I am not scared to pour out my deepest thoughts and emotions. What is amazing is that even the naughty stuff are also here. I've read posts from someone (won't tell who she is) telling her intimate thoughts about her intimate relationships with her partner. And I don't find it filthy but entertaining. And, I'm learning at the same time. Thanks to my husband who discovered Mylot first and gave me the full privilege to become active here.LOL
@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
14 Jan 11
I don't know that I would go so far as to say that mylot is an answer to a lonely heart for me because I don't have a lonely heart. However, I will go so far as to say that the time that I've spent on mylot has fulfilled a place in my life where there was a need. Being a stay at home mother means that I don't have as much adult interaction as I would like to have and being a member of mylot for the last year and a half has helped to fill that hole in my life.
@creationhub (3070)
• Malaysia
13 Jan 11
Mylot was a great inspiration for me when I was a new member. I still am very much attached to mylot as my favourite discussion site. Actually, it is my only discussion site. I have meade many global friends here. Imagine the world without borders is one of what mylot has created through this site.
• China
13 Jan 11
I am a new user of Mylot.I find it provides many opporyunities to communicate with people in the topics that interests me.I think that I can receive people's advice when I meet some trouble.And I am sure that I will spend much time in this site.
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
Hello rberon, Another interesting discussion from you, well when i joined mylot i am not after the earnings but i am after the friendship that i can get from this site but as a day pass by i really enjoy being here for so many reasons i gained a friends here (the mylotters who attended the conference last December), the ideas that i get from each discusion and topic i responded, the freedom of my expression and many more. So do you have a lonely heart?maybe i can make that lonely heart happy , we cannot deny that this site really helped many users in different way and whoever made this site we are really thankful . happy posting
@erikmama (12934)
• United States
13 Jan 11
mylot has truly been an inspiration for me. it has been nearly two years since I joined, and I can say that I owe a lot of people on here for helping me to the point in my life that I am now at. I have gotten encouragement, support, words of kindness, and a place to post about my hurt, my pain, my anger, and there has always beeen someone there who truly seems as if they care to helo me out. I am doing a lot better, and I must come to mylot each day to see all of the new discussions and to check on all of the awesome people I have met since joining. It is really a great site that I am happy to have ran across.
@mkeanel01 (975)
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
lonely heart - a girl holding her heart
Yes, I think so, because for me having to answer different types of discussions can lessen the stress your feeling in your heart. It can also make you relax and think of nothing but only to answer at all the discussions you can answer. Sometimes when I get bored at home and at school or even at work, I tend to go to mylot to start answering discussions and posting one or two. This I can only help people in my opinions but I can also take away all the negative things that happen to me..
@Cutie18f (9563)
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
I am not totally in agreement with you,maybe for some people yes, it is true, but as for me, I do not consider myself lonely nor depressed but I come to Mylot anyway because I just love the exchange of ideas and I love sharing my thoughts for various subjects. It has nothing to do with loneliness or depression. I think I am too busy for those two things.
@irene66 (1671)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
At some in time, I think mylot is a good avenue to express what you feel. There are people who are really good in giving advices. I think there is also the community concern here. Although you cannot chat directly with other members what they tell you might be the answer you are looking for. Anyway do not be sad as, let's us be happy, we have mylot.hahaha
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Jan 11
Sure, for some people, if you make the effort to make friends here it can be!
@eshaan (6193)
• India
12 Jan 11
I don't come here only in depressed condition...its my all time favourite site...you are right that if u want to discuss things and want solutions to problem ..here u will find most accurate answers...if u be here regularly you will not feel lonely ...this i know...but i come even when i don't have time from my daily tasks and i try to steal time to be here...
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
12 Jan 11
All I can say is that I'm having fun here and learning many things at the same time so the earning is just a bonus for me now.