Why are guys so hard to figure out?

@maezee (34483)
United States
January 14, 2011 11:15am CST
It seems like the few guys that I develop interest in are all really complicated and wishy-washy. Why is this? Where are all the simple men when you need them?! My one friend that I've had forever and had a little bit of a fling with is constantly wishy-washy and not only that but a flight risk (since he loves going from country to country for fun, and has the money to do it, somehow) and has a lot of personal issues and baggage. I like him a lot but would rather live my life with someone who isn't constantly traveling without me. Ha. Plus, he can't make up his mind about me and tells me that all the time. I might not have my mind made up either, but at least I don't say that to his face. A new-ish guy in the picture is one who I randomly hung out with last weekend. He is one of my mom's friend's sons, who is my age. I kind of grew up with him, but the last few years he's been an uber big jerk to everyone. Quiet and a jerk. And this weekend, we somehow wound up hanging out when I went over his mom's house (where he lives) to drop some stuff off and visit. He was super cool that day, really talkative. We got to drinking and had a good time (nothing happened, don't worry). He was super talkative like I said, and totally flirty and was grilling me about my 'love life' (currently non-existant by the way) and I ran into him the other day and he was totally stand-off-ish, per usual. It's shocking how guys (and girls I assume)'s personalities just totally change over night. Although I've known him since childhood I really don't know all that much about his life. Maybe something happened. IDK. Anyway, is anyone else here SICK of these complicated men?? I feel like I'm a relatively simple chick.. Goodness. Why is finding a decent guy who doesn't have mood swings so hard these days?? Share your stories PLEASE!!
3 responses
• United States
14 Jan 11
The simple men are everywhere. Most of the complicated ones are putting on a show, and no one is buying tickets for it! Look for guys who are not metro. If a guy is genuine, his first concern will be you, and not his hair, or clothing style. Pay close attention to the way he speaks about others if you want to know how well he will treat you.
@maezee (34483)
• United States
14 Jan 11
True true. But I don't go for the "metro" guys. Well actually I don't know what you mean by 'metro'. Like metrosexual? Ha ha I'm confused
• United States
14 Jan 11
Yeah, I mean the metrosexual guys. I trust that the right guy is right around the corner for you. Stay away from that dude at the thrift store, I read that post and he sounds a little strange.
@uath13 (8207)
• United States
14 Jan 11
Typically they're complicated because the women around them have them so confusicated & discombobulated they're glitching. They don't know whether their coming or going or if they're supposed to be doing one or the other.
@uath13 (8207)
• United States
14 Jan 11
I'm personally waiting for my wife to tell me!
• Sweden
14 Jan 11
They want to play machoman. Thats what consumer society have develped people to do.