Getting Bore with My Life want to End it

@sonusd (1547)
India
January 18, 2011 2:15am CST
Dear Friends, Life is getting very frustration, Since some year Nothing is good happening in my life,what ever I am expecting the things are going against it. Luck Is going in other direction,I am working very hard but always I am facing the failure situation. Some time Thinking to End this life but some time thinking this will create problem for my family, SO I cant understand whether I am a coward person or confusing my life my self?
6 responses
• Canada
19 Jan 11
Well, considering that nothing good is happening, I would imagine that you have no food, no money, are homeless, no one that cares for you, and have poor health. Otherwise, there are many people much worse off than you who would be more than insulted to hear about how "frustrating" your life is and how "nothing good happens" as you say. My personal suggestion would be, remove head from sphincter, take a good look around, and realize if you want change and for things to be better it has to start inside YOU. Perhaps therapy is in order? It really can't hurt.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
19 Jan 11
In this frustration situation I do not have any positive energy to think good also can not concentrating on my regular work always searching for any miracle,do not know how these days will pass very soon, so that i can see a good tomorrow
@yhanie (188)
• Philippines
18 Jan 11
we're just the same,, i'm already tired with my life but i dont want to end like what you said,, we are still blessed to have this life,, i am a coward and misunderstood person but i still love my life despite my troubles and problems,, i know someone still want me,, and you should think of that too
• China
18 Jan 11
Your family need you. U can not end life. Everyone will face many failure in their life. The success will close you after you met enough failure.
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
19 Jan 11
i have a lot of problems, sometimes bigger that most people my age experience, but i never did for one moment think of quitting or ending my life, i believe that it is not our decision to end our life, it was given as a gift from God and we have no right to waste it. I don't believe for one moment that life is easy, it is not a bed of roses, but every problems, every failures and struggles we face are what define us. Think of problems and obstacles as a rod used to us to correct our mistakes. Life is beautiful my friend don;t think of ending it no matter how hard it is to go through, remember only strong people wins. God bless.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
18 Jan 11
If you choose to end your life, that is what will happen, it will end. No chance for anything else to happen to you, nothing good, fun, exciting or even bad. Even if you believe in rebirth, if that happens you will never be you again. Why not try to think outside your box, stop thinking of your problems, and look to see where you can help others. Even if you just give time there is always someone who needs your time. Remember only you are in charge of you and if you are frustrated it is because that is what you choose. Others may be in the same place you are and look at it as a challenge rather then a failure. Blessings.
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
19 Jan 11
Since you have a family that you care about and that cares about you, not everything has failed and not everything is negative. If you ended your life, you would inflict indescribable pain and anguish and guilt on your family. Your family does not deserve that! Life is up and down, good things and bad, one day it's like this and the next it's like that, unpredictable. It's not all good and it's not all bad. We can improve things by taking care of our health and improving our attitude. If we suffer from depression we may need to seek medical aid as sometimes depression is caused by chemical imbalances. I read in another of your post that you play the stock market. I would recommend a job where you do your work, you get paid and you go home. This would greatly reduce the stress and uncertainty in your life. You would have more control in your life and increase your happiness. Life is a wonderful gift from God. We should all cherish it and make the best of it. There is more to life then the present. God has wonderful things in store for us in the future. So keep fighting my friend!
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 11
This is life. Failed, trials, successes, happy, sad, brave, despairing, experienced by everyone. Ending a life is not going to solve the problem. We need to live strong, to face a very hard life.